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Browse this sub-directory of Guy Finley's top self-improvement and spirituality articles, poetry, and inspiration quotes by Guy Finley

Topic > Addiction / Codependency

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  • Addiction (Writing - 2/23/03)

    How to overthrow the addiction, the tyrant of dark domination!

  • Be Yourself and Be Complete (Writing - 4/23/07)

    There is no substitute, explains Guy Finley, for seeing the truth of our actual spiritual situation.

  • Coming to the End of Codependency (Writing - 7/23/07)

    The suffering inherent in any condition created by unconscious codependency, explains Guy Finley, is due to our having forgotten who we really are.

  • Cut the Root of What's Wrecking Your Life (Writing - 2/25/08)

    The unsure self that not only looks for, but attaches itself to codependent relationships -- cannot possibly be the real you. Let's see why this statement has to be true.…[more]

  • Blame Schmame (Audio 6:29 - 4/25/09)

    In this podcast, Guy Finley talks about how any kind of blame is actually an avoidance of seeing yourself as you actually are in the present moment.

  • The Sure Cure for a Sinking Spirit (Audio 5:36 - 11/17/09)

    In this podcast, Guy Finley talks about how resistance to any negative state such as anger, anxiety, or fear does not help diminish the state, but instead actually causes the…[more]

  • Close Encounters of the Truthful Kind (Writing - 1/4/10)

    Guy Finley reminds us that the truth never causes pain.

  • How to Stop the Spiritually Sick from Infecting You (Writing - 6/4/10)

    The company we keep, explains Guy Finley, refers both to the kinds of people outside of us and the presence of accompanying thoughts and feelings circulating within us.

  • Stop Giving Yourself Away (Writing - 7/5/10)

    Time and time again, we come to the same spiritual lesson: no one can give us that which can only be found within our Self.

  • Let Go and Learn the Truth of Yourself (Audio 5:53 - 8/27/11)

    In this short talk, Guy Finley talks about why human beings are so addicted to stress and tension, and why it is so important for us to understand that something…[more]

  • Unmask the Hidden Power of All Negative States (Writing - 10/29/11)

    We value negative states because of the strong sense of self we get from them.

  • Remember This Key to Self-Command (Writing - 12/19/11)

    The key to regaining command of yourself in any moment you start to feel as though you're in a rush is to remember that who you are and what you…[more]

  • Your Secret Power of Self-Disconnect (Writing - 12/26/11)

    Deliberately disconnecting yourself from whatever you think has you blocked leads to true self-liberation because you have never been trapped by anything outside of your own lack of understanding.

  • The Source of True Self-Liberation (Writing - 5/28/12)

    You must learn to stop thinking in terms of beginnings and endings, successes and failures, and begin to treat everything in your life as a learning experience instead of a…[more]

  • The Key to a New Independent Life (Writing - 7/2/12)

    The fear of being alone in life feels real, no doubt; but it belongs to an imagined self.

  • Let Go and Rise Above What Holds You Down (Writing - 11/26/12)

    Letting go follows the realization that holding on is of no further use.

  • Practice Getting Out of Your Own Way (Writing - 2/18/13)

    In spite of how things may appear to us, we are never trapped by where we are. The trap is always who we are.

  • No One Hurts You in the Now But You (Audio 2:12 - 4/29/13)

    Guy Finley talks about how Truth will never stop trying to help us see and drop the psychological "baggage" that we unconsciously carry around with us.

  • Don't "Dance" with Painful Thoughts and Feelings (Video 12:49 - 3/22/13)

    In this video, Guy tells an enlightening and entertaining spiritual story about a young woman who gets carried away with "dance partners" -- thoughts and feelings -- that don't have…[more]

  • Learn to Accept What Life Would Teach You (Writing - 4/1/13)

    Ours is the power to choose what we will and will not give our power to.

  • Detect and Reject Despair (Writing - 11/11/13)

    A painful regret is a needless present pain over an experience now past.

  • Catch Yourself Before Acting From Weakness (Writing - 11/25/13)

    Any time we pretend to be something we're not, we do so out of fear that without that "persona" to protect us we won't get what we want.

  • The Real Root of All Rage Revealed (Audio 1:14 - 8/25/14)

    In this brief sound bite, Guy Finley talks about the root cause of all the pain and anger we experience when something that we thought we possessed is taken away…[more]

  • Choose to Change Now (Writing - 8/11/14)

    You can't change the kind of person you are later because there is no later -- there is only now.

  • Climb Up to True Independence (Writing - 8/31/15)

    It isn't in another's power to do for you what you must do for yourself.

  • Recognize and Reject Sick Spirits (Writing - 9/21/15)

    Here is a list of five ways to stop people with dark spirits from infecting you.

  • Refuse Abuse, Within and Without (Video 12:50 - 3/2/16)

    Guy Finley explains that anyone who remains in an abusive relationship of any kind does so only because of his or her own weakness and unconscious agreement. As we work…[more]

  • Discover The Way Out From the Harmful Effects of Anti Depressant Medication (Video 4:45 - 8/23/16)

    Guy Finley addresses the path to freedom from addictive medications. Change is possible, and we are created to be free from everything that now holds us captive.

  • Use the End of A Bad Relationship to Change Your Life (Video 7:27 - 2/9/17)

    Guy Finley reveals that the "self" that grieves over an unwanted event is the same level of self that dragged you into the situation in the first place. We have…[more]