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5 Personal Practices That Put Anxiety Out of Business (Writing - 2/22/03)
Your conscious participation in inner exercises, such as these five practices, is the only way to awaken the will you need so that one day you never have to answer…[more]
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10 Ways to Tell the World You've Lost Interest in Being You (Writing - 2/22/03)
The true spiritual path begins and ends with what you already are. Use these 10 insights to tell the world you've lost interest in being you.
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Painful Patterns (Writing - 2/23/03)
Breaking out of old painful patterns, habits, and recuring problems.
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Let Go and Know Peace (Writing - 2/7/03)
Discover an altogether new kind of peace in your life as you learn to let go.
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Let the Following Higher Hints Help You to Choose In Favor of Your True Self (Writing - 8/16/02)
Use this list of ten powerful insights to begin choosing in favor of your True Self.
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The Secret of Owning Your Own Life (Writing - 4/5/03)
Powerful insights from best-selling author Guy Finley show how we can bring an end to our punishing need for approval.
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How to Live Life on Your Own Terms (Writing - 5/19/03)
Guy Finley talks about how to escape the punishment inherent in wanting to be approved by others.
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Helping Ourselves and Others Break the Circle of Suffering (Writing - 6/2/03)
Guy Finley shows the one way for breaking the cycle of conflict, hatred, and pain that arise in human relationships.
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Live in Harmony with Reality (Writing - 6/9/03)
Guy Finley shows how we can begin enjoying True Success by agreeing to accept the lessons life has for us.
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Self-Correction Is Self-Elevation (Writing - 9/1/03)
A short writing by Guy Finley showing how Higher Freedom comes to us in direct proportion to what we are willing to learn about ourselves
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How to Make all of Life be Just for You (Writing - 9/15/03)
In this short writing Guy Finley explains how we must revisit the same painful lessons over and over again until we begin to put the Truth first in our lives.…[more]
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Start Seeing Through the Blame Game (Writing - 7/26/04)
The question of why we find ourselves stuck in the same old rut, explains Guy Finley, can't be answered by the old self that asked the question in the first…[more]
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Break Through to a Totally New You (Writing - 9/7/04)
By rising above any self-righteousness that wants us to blame others for how we feel, explains Guy Finley, we gain an entirely new perspective on this useless reaction and learn…[more]
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Take the Step that You're Sure You Can't (Writing - 1/1/05)
Guy Finley shows us that, no matter how hard it seems to start fresh or learn something new, who you really are is greater than any part of yourself which…[more]
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Enter the Great Estate of Your True Self (Writing - 2/5/05)
No one ever feels small in life, explains Guy Finley, who hasn't first been fooled into believing that there is nothing bigger than those small thoughts and feelings through which…[more]
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The Work and Reward of Just Being Yourself (Writing - 7/4/05)
Looking for freedom in powers or possessions, explains Guy Finley, ensures that we will always be their captive for fear of losing them.
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Free Yourself from Useless Fear and Frustration (Writing - 10/1/05)
The root of that which is forever seeking acceptance and approval in us, explains Guy Finley, is that which is forever telling us that we are unacceptable as we are.
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Walk Lightly Through Life (Writing - 12/11/05)
It is not our life that must change, explains Guy Finley, but our view of our life.
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Three New Choices That Dismiss Dark Conditions (Writing - 1/7/06)
Guy Finley sheds light on the fact that negative reactions to unwanted events do nothing to cure them.
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Be Careful What You Pray For . . . (Writing - 1/15/06)
Guy Finley explains that our experience of life moment-to-moment is, in fact, what we have asked for.
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A Rainbow in the Deep (Writing - 3/26/06)
A special writing by Guy Finley which beautifully and poignantly explains that the world from which we sow is the world within which we reap. Originally presented at a classroom…[more]
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Realize the Bright, Noble, and Ever-Ascending Life (Writing - 5/29/06)
When we attempt to do what is not within our power, explains Guy Finley, we only succeed in making ourselves miserable.
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An Advanced Lesson in Letting Go (Writing - 8/12/06)
The real act of letting go, explains Guy Finley, is first an interior action, followed, if needful, by a wiser exterior action.
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Practice the Principle of Being Present (Audio 7:38 - 1/23/07)
Use the powerful principles presented in this talk to step out of the pain-filled worlds of imagination, and into the one True world of authentic inner-peace.
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Dealing with Healing Ourselves (Writing - 9/11/06)
Guy Finley explains the power in seeing that we are actively involved with unseen thoughts and feelings that compromise us.
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You Can Conquer Any Condition (Writing - 10/16/06)
The only power negativity has over us, explains Guy Finley, is the power we give it.
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Start Planting the Seeds of Peace (Writing - 12/4/06)
Guy Finley explains if we are ever to realize the integrity and consistent kindness of our True Nature, if we long to know something of heaven while we live on…[more]
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Go from Storms to Sunny Skies (Writing - 3/5/07)
Fighting the storm by resisting its winds and rain, explains Guy Finley, will do no good.
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Wake Up and Walk Out of the Cell of Yourself (Writing - 4/28/07)
Whenever we find ourselves in some "unwanted" part of ourselves, perhaps reliving an old heartache or caught in the throes of some irrepressible anger, old fear, or unyielding worry, part…[more]
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Stop Struggling with Others (Writing - 8/13/07)
When we're angry or resentful for what has happened in our lives, the real enemy is not ouside of us, explains Guy Finley -- it's what we don't yet know…[more]
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The Spiritual Secret that Allows You to Defeat Any Discouragement (Writing - 9/24/07)
Awareness is a living and intelligent feature, explains Guy Finley, of the ever-present Now within which it dwells.
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Wake Up and Walk Away from Whatever is Pulling You Down (Writing - 10/21/07)
We are here on earth, explains Guy Finley, to grow beyond the limiting influences of our own unawakened nature.
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Snap Yourself Out of Psychic Slumber (Writing - 11/11/07)
You may not be able to think your way out of a nagging problem, says Guy Finley, but you can see your way clear of it.
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A Short Talk on Reincarnation (Audio 5:36 - 4/6/08)
In this podcast, Guy Finley reveals the true, practical meaning behind the idea of reincarnation.
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Challenge Fear's Right to Rule Your Life (Writing - 5/12/08)
The seemingly scary condition, whatever it may be, is not the problem, says Guy Finley. It is your reaction that is fearful.
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Liberate Yourself From Self-Limiting Thoughts and Feelings (Writing - 3/23/09)
Guy Finley explains that we should do what's in our power and refuse to be discouraged about anything else.
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End the Misery of Motivating Yourself (Audio 9:02 - 6/1/09)
In this incredible podcast, Guy Finley reveals some startling, live-changing facts about motivation that up until now have been hidden in plain sight.
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Six Eye-Opening Insights to Start True Self-Healing (Writing - 6/8/09)
Guy Finley reminds us that the Living Light never shows us anything in ourselves that it hasn't already started to change for us.
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The Secret Teaching of the Ages (Writing - 7/20/09)
Guy Finley explains that a "prisoner" mentality is one that blames anything outside of you for the pain you have.
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Turn the Light on What Stresses You (Writing - 8/10/09)
Stress, explains Guy Finley, is a result of a false or incomplete view of reality imposed upon us by our own unenlightened nature.
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21 Ways We Waste Our Vital Life Forces (Writing - 8/17/09)
Guy Finley reminds us that everything we need to succeed is forever raining down upon and within us.
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Wake Up to the Complainer in You (Writing - 8/24/09)
The following key lessons are taken from 365 Days to Let Go. Use their insights to help free yourself from the self-inflicted punishment of complaining. Until we become conscious of…[more]
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This Key Unlocks the Door to an Unthinkable Freedom (Writing - 10/5/09)
The next time you run into some familiar blockage or begin to feel unsuited to face some new and difficult personal challenge, don't do what you've always done before. *Don't…[more]
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Practice Stepping Out of the Rush (Writing - 1/14/10)
Intentionally separate yourself from any rushing inner condition, explains Guy Finley, by voluntarily stepping out of it.
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Open Yourself to the Endless Resources of the Present Moment (Writing - 2/11/10)
The only power dark, discouraging states hold over us, explains Guy Finley, is that they get us to identify with feelings of being powerless.
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Break the Spell of Self-Limiting Negative States (Writing - 4/5/10)
Your awareness of troubled thoughts and feelings, explains Guy Finley, is the power that keeps their harmful and self-limiting influences from having control over you.
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Step Out of the Chains Called Self-Control (Writing - 5/28/10)
You can wake yourself up, explains Guy Finley, just as many times as you're willing to catch yourself in daydreams where you're the star.
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How to Discover Your Higher Possibilities (Writing - 7/9/10)
In our willingness to journey to what seems the end of us, we are gifted with the understanding that there is no ending to our True Self.
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Stay Out of Places that Steal Your Happiness (Writing - 8/13/10)
We have the capacity to stop making ourselves powerless by waking up to having put ourselves where our powers are stolen from us.
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The Courage to Stop Suffering Over Mistakes (Writing - 9/3/10)
Real self-command dawns within us as we realize that reliving the past is powerless to change a present misunderstanding.
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The Courage to Be Free (Video 4:40 - 7/29/10)
Guy Finley speaks about topics related to his new book The Courage to Be Free including fear and fearlessness, beauty, kindness, love, and the authentic path to an enlightened heart…[more]
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Take Yourself Off the Track to Nowhere (Audio 6:42 - 10/19/10)
In this podcast, Guy Finley explains that true self-command becomes possible when we begin to consciously interrupt the momentum of the unconscious nature that is presently in control of our…[more]
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Discover a New Way of Knowing Yourself (Writing - 10/22/10)
No intention can be any stronger than our ability to remember it in the moment that it is needed.
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The Simplicity of Natural Seeing (Audio 4:05 - 11/15/10)
In this short talk, Guy Finley talks about the vast difference between mere ideas about spirituality and the direct perception of living spiritual principles.
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The Secret Prayer That Renews You (Writing - 12/6/10)
Before something genuinely new can appear in our lives, something old must pass.
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Real Life: Lesson #1 (Writing - 12/27/10)
In order for change to take place, we must be changed.
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Break Out of Any Rut (Writing - 6/20/11)
The first step to breaking out of any rut in life is to no longer enable the parts of us that keep walking in them while wishing they weren't so…[more]
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Let Go and Learn the Truth of Yourself (Audio 5:53 - 8/27/11)
In this short talk, Guy Finley talks about why human beings are so addicted to stress and tension, and why it is so important for us to understand that something…[more]
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Liberate Yourself From Your Self (Audio 7:58 - 4/1/12)
In this podcast, Guy Finley talks about the difference between merely thinking about spiritual ideas and the actual awareness of the truth of ourselves in the present moment.
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End the Game of "Pain Pong" (Audio 6:00 - 3/22/13)
In this short talk, Guy Finley explains how most of the unnecessary struggle and conflict that we experience in this life is due to our habitual, unconscious fixation on recurring…[more]
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Spiritual Baptism by Water and by Fire (Audio 3:28 - 4/26/13)
In this short talk, Guy Finley discusses the need to be nourished by a new kind of understanding that appears when we can no longer tolerate giving our lives away…[more]
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Don't "Dance" with Painful Thoughts and Feelings (Video 12:49 - 3/22/13)
In this video, Guy tells an enlightening and entertaining spiritual story about a young woman who gets carried away with "dance partners" -- thoughts and feelings -- that don't have…[more]
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A New Approach to Old Problems (Writing - 4/8/13)
Life is always new, which means there is no such thing as an "old" problem.





