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Waking Up Together (Writing - 2/22/03)
The whole of our lives is relationship. The whole of our inner discovery takes place within relationship. Nothing can speed up our inner work better than working with someone who…[more]
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10 Ways to Tell the World You've Lost Interest in Being You (Writing - 2/22/03)
The true spiritual path begins and ends with what you already are. Use these 10 insights to tell the world you've lost interest in being you.
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Perfecting Relationship (Writing - 2/23/03)
The Secret of Pefecting Relationships
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Nurturing Love (Writing - 2/23/03)
Nurturing Love: How to be in True Relationship with another human being!
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Relationships (Writing - 2/23/03)
Using relationships for inner development.
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New Powers to Help You Perfect Your Relationships (continued) (Writing - 8/19/03)
Guy Finley discusses how we can raise our relationships to a higher level by understanding that the other person is never the problem when we feel hurt. It is not…[more]
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Taking Your Part in Perfect Intelligence (Writing - 11/11/03)
By working with our resistance to others, Guy Finley explains that we ultimately learn about our own true nature, out of which compassion is born.
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Using Your Relationships to Realize Real Life (Writing - 12/22/03)
The greatest, most abundant resource on planet Earth is also its least understood and utilized. Its unlimited supply is found virtually everywhere, anytime, and under all circumstances, even though few…[more]
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Divorce (Writing - 11/1/04)
Guy Finley discusses a new approach to breaking the cycle of negativity involved in divorce where we take the focus off the other person and place our attention on a…[more]
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Giving Yourself (and Others) Room to Grow (Writing - 11/14/04)
In order to give others the space they need in which to grow, says Guy Finley, we must first make room within ourselves.
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Two Ways to Raise Your Level of Spiritual Freedom (Writing - 3/13/05)
We are spiritually free, explains Guy Finley, when not one part of us harbors any hatred or resentment for any other human being.
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The Price One Must Pay (Writing - 3/21/05)
Nothing in the universe, explains Guy Finley, can prevent a man or a woman who wants to know Love -- who wants to rise to the next level -- from…[more]
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Let Your Relationships Set You Free (Writing - 7/10/05)
The path to a more compassionate life, explains Guy Finley, is found in our willingness to try to understand the moment instead of needing to be understood in it.
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Helping Others to Help Themselves Go Higher (Writing - 11/12/05)
The best to way to help others, explains Guy Finley, is to give them room in which to grow.
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How to Release Yourself from Yourself (Writing - 12/5/05)
Letting go is about learning to die to ourselves psychologically, explains Guy Finley, so that something higher, something "undiminishable" can stand in for us.
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Escape the Punishment in Judging Others (Writing - 2/6/06)
The gradual higher awareness of others' pain, explains Guy Finley, is the birth of true compassion in us.
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The Great Law that Governs Harmonious Relationships (Writing - 3/5/06)
Many times the very thing we want from the person we are with, explains Guy Finley, is the very thing that we ourselves either lack at the moment or otherwise…[more]
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Enlarge Your Relationship with Real Life (Writing - 8/6/06)
What we put first in our lives, explains Guy Finley, is our first relationship with life.
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Clear This Obstacle and Climb to True Independence (Writing - 10/1/06)
Every step along the way to a higher independent life, explains Guy Finley, is both the challenge and the reward.
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Let Go of the Little Things in Life (Writing - 10/9/06)
Learning to let go and to live in the Now, explains Guy Finley, is the same as catching ourselves holding onto what limits us and then deliberately dropping these self-imposed…[more]
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The Secret of Perfect Relationships (Writing - 11/20/06)
The less pain we have over what life appears to deny us, explains Guy Finley, the more at peace we naturally become with ourselves.
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Walk Away From the Ache of What Others Think About You (Audio 14:49 - 1/21/08)
We all know the sting of not getting the approval we seek from other people. And when we don't receive the approval, we double our efforts and try a different…[more]
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Relationships: The Pathway and the Promise of Real Life (Writing - 3/3/08)
Right within us, as an unseen aspect of our True Nature, resides the entire range of relationships that the universe has to offer.
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The Essential Laws of Fearless Living (Audio 12:39 - 6/9/08)
In this extraordinary podcast, Guy Finley reveals the higher understanding that is necessary to find the Truly Fearless Life!
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Never Again Feel Like a Victim! (Writing - 6/9/08)
Our experience of any passing event -- for the pain or pleasure of it, explains Guy Finley -- is the product of how we see it.
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Stop This Secret Self-Sabotage (Writing - 6/23/08)
Choosing inner seeing over the wish to be seen by others in a complimentary light, explains Guy Finley, stops the cycle of self-sabotage.
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Making "Peace" with People who Would Punish Us (Writing - 6/30/08)
The fear of being alone in life, explains Guy Finley, belongs to an imagined self.
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Here's the Heart of Happy Human Relationships (Writing - 7/28/08)
The first step in harmonious relationships is simple: We need only realize the spiritual truth that we cannot meet someone whom we are not like in some way, even if…[more]
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What Can I Learn About Myself From You? (Writing - 9/14/08)
Compassion starts with the understanding that every human being on the planet looks different from us -- because physically we are different -- but inwardly we all live in the…[more]
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Stop Believing in Your Own Weakness (Writing - 9/22/08)
It is our fear of being alone, explains Guy Finley, that compels us to seek the approval of others.
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Let Love Be Your Life (Writing - 10/6/08)
If we want a whole life, explains Guy Finley, we must be whole human beings.
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Let Go and Give Others Room to Grow (Writing - 10/13/08)
We can help others reach higher by simply agreeing, explains Guy Finley, to give them space to go through their changes.
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The Power to Outgrow Problem People in Your Life (Writing - 10/19/08)
We must be willing, explains Guy Finley, to taste the bitterness of our negative states before we would feed them to others.
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Step Out of the Dark Cycle of Discontent (Writing - 11/2/08)
Our real "problem" with others, explains Guy Finley, isn't that they won't or can't give to us what we want from them.
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Take the Weight of the World Off Your Shoulders (Writing - 11/29/08)
Why try and change your outer world, asks Guy Finley, when it is only a reflection of your inner life?
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Just Say "No" to Blaming Others (Writing - 1/19/09)
A big part of our inner work in all of our relationships involves remembering this key idea: whenever we are not present and properly attentive to ourselves, we may be…[more]
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Let Go and Grow Happy! (Writing - 1/28/09)
Guy Finley explains how and why to let go of any negativity.
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Start Using All Your Relationships to Enrich Yourself (Writing - 3/16/09)
Use your fear to come awake to yourself, says Guy Finley.
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Stop Aching Over the Actions of Others! (Writing - 3/30/09)
Guy Finley encourages us to look inward instead of outward for a reason why we're suffering.
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Blame Schmame (Audio 6:29 - 4/25/09)
In this podcast, Guy Finley talks about how any kind of blame is actually an avoidance of seeing yourself as you actually are in the present moment.
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The Secret to Healing What Pains You (Writing - 4/27/09)
Guy Finley explains that any part of us trying to drag us into a heated stew over "who" or "what" should be blamed for our pain is secretly working to…[more]
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Turn Your Fuming into Freedom (Writing - 5/11/09)
Guy Finley explains how whatever weight we seek to place on the backs of others simply falls back on our own.
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Touch the Timeless Truth of Yourself (Writing - 6/1/09)
We must stop trying to create conditions for ourselves, explains Guy Finley, through which we hope to escape the fear of our own emptiness.
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Rise Above the Blame Game (Writing - 9/21/09)
The weakness that blames others, explains Guy Finley, blinds you to your real inner condition.
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Love the One You're With (Audio 2:27 - 12/6/09)
In this podcast, Guy Finley talks about how we can experience truer, brighter, more meaningful relationships with everyone we meet once we learn to put the needs of others before…[more]
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Reflections on the Real (Audio 4:54 - 12/31/09)
In this revealing podcast, Guy Finley talks about how attending to the true needs of others also allows us to discover our own limitless possibilities.
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Reap the Benefits of Being a Lover of Truth (Writing - 1/7/10)
Learning to love what is good, explains Guy Finley, begins with being truthful about what we presently love.
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Free Yourself From the Circle of False Friends (Audio 15:53 - 2/10/10)
In this podcast, Guy Finley talks about how our experience of life is a direct reflection of the kind of psychological company that we keep.
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The Reality Behind the Need for Realizing New Relationships (Writing - 3/26/10)
Guy Finley explains that the Truth asks us to give it its way in our lives.
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Outgrowing Relationships (Writing - 4/1/10)
Outgrowing Relationships - Learn why walking the authentic spiritual path necessarily causes some relationships to fall away.
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How to Stop the Spiritually Sick from Infecting You (Writing - 6/4/10)
The company we keep, explains Guy Finley, refers both to the kinds of people outside of us and the presence of accompanying thoughts and feelings circulating within us.
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Let Your Pain Free You From the Fear of It (Audio 20:16 - 7/1/10)
In this podcast, Guy Finley talks about why we must not be afraid to discover everything that we need to know about ourselves.
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Let Love Lead You to True Success (Writing - 6/21/10)
Guy Finley explains how we are held ever apart from what we love by the very fact that we would clutch it to our breast.
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Stop Giving Yourself Away (Writing - 7/5/10)
Time and time again, we come to the same spiritual lesson: no one can give us that which can only be found within our Self.
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Break the Bonds of this Secret Form of Captivity (Writing - 8/3/10)
We want to be free, and to be free means to understand what the path of freedom is about.
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Be a Correspondent of Real Life (Audio 6:03 - 8/12/10)
In this podcast, Guy Finley talks about how every moment is actually a divine communication that wants to reveal to us our own limitless possibilities.
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The #1 Secret to Being Relaxed, Carefree, and In Command (Writing - 1/1/10)
There is a hidden part of you that knows, without thinking about it, how to always be perfectly relaxed, carefree, and in command. This higher intellectual and emotional intelligence is…[more]
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Use Unkind Acts to Help Create a New World (Audio 2:20 - 9/17/10)
In this podcast, Guy Finley talks about how we can use everything that we encounter in our relationships with others to change ourselves.
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End the Dark Cycle of Discontentment (Writing - 10/1/10)
We have been the unwitting servants of a thought nature whose appetite is unappeasable.
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Plant the Seeds of a New Self (Writing - 10/29/10)
If we wish to have true harmonious relationships with others, then it is we who must change.
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Act on What You Know is True (Writing - 1/3/11)
Whatever suffering you agree to shoulder not only helps to lighten the load of those in need, but also serves to awaken within you the strength you need to be…[more]
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Come Awake to the Judgmental Nature in You (Writing - 2/21/11)
Higher inner awareness grants you patience and new forms of consideration, because now you realize just how much pain everyone is really in.
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Articles of Higher Consciousness (Writing - 3/14/11)
You have the Light to detect, dismiss, and to transcend the limiting influences of painful negative states such as doubt, worry, hatred, anger, and fear.
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The Sure Cure for Unhappiness (Audio 5:19 - 5/23/11)
In this short talk, Guy Finley talks about how our level of happiness is ultimately determined by our level of self-understanding.
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Secrets of Compassionate Relationships (Writing - 5/2/11)
Real compassion has to do with realizing that conscious relationship is the root of our existence, trying to get us to wake up a little bit and enter into those…[more]
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Uncover the Root of Destructive Relationships (Writing - 5/30/11)
There is nothing in the universe that can stop us from growing, except our habitual, mechanical nature.
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Uncommon Insights from Everyday Interactions (Writing - 8/1/11)
It is never the people we are around that cause us negative reactions. These reactions arise out of what we secretly want from people.
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The Same Rose Never Blooms Twice (Audio 4:14 - 9/1/11)
In this podcast, Guy Finley talks about how we are here as human beings to continually perfect our self-understanding so that we can begin to enter into an awakened relationship…[more]
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See the Flowering of Spirit (Audio 3:28 - 10/19/11)
In this short talk, Guy Finley talks about how it is possible for us to discover an authentically new life if we will persist with our wish to know the…[more]
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Why Desires Never Satisfy (Writing - 12/5/11)
If we're interested in spiritual things, we gradually realize that what we really need is to understand this nature that is never satisfied.
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Free Yourself from the Tyranny of the Past (Writing - 1/30/12)
Our task, if we want to be free human beings -- if we want a life in which we no longer carry around with us "what he did," "what she…[more]
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The Secret of Getting What You Wish for From Others (Writing - 2/13/12)
We all know what it's like to find ourselves unhappy and in conflict with someone who just isn't giving us what we want or need from him or her. Whenever…[more]
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The Key to a New Independent Life (Writing - 7/2/12)
The fear of being alone in life feels real, no doubt; but it belongs to an imagined self.
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Being Friends with Truth (Writing - 10/22/12)
Choosing to keep the company of truth is the same as choosing to lose all the false "friends" that presently limit you.
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Start Seeing Life More Accurately (Writing - 12/31/12)
Instead of putting our attention on what others have done or said, we must turn our attention inward.
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Attend to the Business at Hand (Audio 2:18 - 5/1/13)
In this short talk, Guy Finley discusses the mind's compulsive habit of judging other people, which is an unfortunate waste of time and energy that would better be spent attending…[more]
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Authentic Help for a Young Child (Video 2:53 - 4/29/13)
Guy Finley talks about the importance of never meeting a child's negative state on the same level of negativity. To truly help a child who is negative we must observe…[more]
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There's Nothing You Can't Do (Video 4:31 - 5/10/13)
Guy Finley explains that everything you need to succeed and to change the kind of human being you are is already provided for you.
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Love Begins with Complete Openness to Life (Video 6:56 - 5/17/13)
In this video, Guy Finley explains that true love reveals to us what we need to see about ourselves so that we can develop a more perfect relationship with what…[more]
