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Learn to Release all Resentments

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Love the One You're With

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Physician, Heal Thyself

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Let Truth Bring You To Tremble

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Guy Finley reminds us that the Living Light never shows us anything in ourselves that it hasn't already started to change for us.

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Touch the Timeless Truth of Yourself

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Turn Your Fuming into Freedom

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The Secret to Healing What Pains You

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Blame Schmame

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Stop Aching Over the Actions of Others!

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Start Using All Your Relationships to Enrich Yourself

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Awaken to a New and Higher World Within Yourself

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Let Go and Grow Happy!

Guy Finley explains how and why to let go of any negativity.

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Just Say "No" to Blaming Others

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Commentary on the Murder at Wal-Mart

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Take the Weight of the World Off Your Shoulders

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Don't Let Broken Expectations Bring You Down!

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Step Out of the Dark Cycle of Discontent

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The Power to Outgrow Problem People in Your Life

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Let Go and Give Others Room to Grow

We can help others reach higher by simply agreeing, explains Guy Finley, to give them space to go through their changes.

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Let Love Be Your Life

If we want a whole life, explains Guy Finley, we must be whole human beings.

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Stop Believing in Your Own Weakness

It is our fear of being alone, explains Guy Finley, that compels us to seek the approval of others.

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What Can I Learn About Myself From You?

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Here's the Heart of Happy Human Relationships

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Two Words at the Heart of True Salvation

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Making "Peace" with People who Would Punish Us

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Stop This Secret Self-Sabotage

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The Essential Laws of Fearless Living

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Never Again Feel Like a Victim!

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The Power to Put the Past Behind You

Our task, explains Guy Finley, is discovering that we can have no real freedom until we are free of the tyranny of the past that still lives within us.

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Dare to Stop Comparing Yourself to Others

In this podcast, Guy Finley explains how every human being is meant to be a unique expression of the Intelligence of our Living Universe.

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Relationships: The Pathway and the Promise of Real Life

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Walk Away From the Ache of What Others Think About You

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Transform the World Within You and Around You

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Q&A - Shift in World Consciousness

Guy Finley speaks about the popular idea of a coming evolution in world consciousness.

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Find Personal Freedom in the Principles of Invisible Justice

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Abuse

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The Secret of Perfect Relationships

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Let Go of the Little Things in Life

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Clear This Obstacle and Climb to True Independence

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Enlarge Your Relationship with Real Life

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Break Out of the Blame Game

Negative emotions cannot exist, explains Guy Finley, without having something to blame for their punishing presence.

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The Great Law that Governs Harmonious Relationships

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Escape the Punishment in Judging Others

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Always Walk on the Light Side of Life

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How to Release Yourself from Yourself

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Helping Others to Help Themselves Go Higher

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Remember Your Real Self and Be Free!

Guy Finley reminds us that happiness, love, peace, compassion, and contentment are timeless states of being in the Now.

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Let Your Relationships Set You Free

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The Price One Must Pay

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Two Ways to Raise Your Level of Spiritual Freedom

We are spiritually free, explains Guy Finley, when not one part of us harbors any hatred or resentment for any other human being.

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Cancel the Ten Causes of Needless Heartaches

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Giving Yourself (and Others) Room to Grow

In order to give others the space they need in which to grow, says Guy Finley, we must first make room within ourselves.

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Divorce

Guy Finley discusses a new approach to breaking the cycle of negativity involved in divorce where we take the focus off the other person and place our attention on a…[more]

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Start Seeing Through the Blame Game

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Make the Fear of Being "No One" Fade Away

Looking for ourselves in the eyes of others throws us behind the walls of a psychic prison. The door slams shut each time we find ourselves feeling good about ourselves…[more]

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What Must Be Done

Real faith, explains Guy Finley, requires unwavering immersion in the unknown territory outside of one's Self.

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Breaking Out of the Circle of Conflict

Guy Finley explains that choosing to bear, rather than reciprocate, the pain of others, is the only way to end the circle of suffering.

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Compassion

Guy Finley discusses what it means to have forgiveness and compassion for others, and the evidence of God's compassion for this world through request and response.

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Using Your Relationships to Realize Real Life

The greatest, most abundant resource on planet Earth is also its least understood and utilized. Its unlimited supply is found virtually everywhere, anytime, and under all circumstances, even though few…[more]

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Taking Your Part in Perfect Intelligence

By working with our resistance to others, Guy Finley explains that we ultimately learn about our own true nature, out of which compassion is born.

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New Powers to Help You Perfect Your Relationships (continued)

Guy Finley discusses how we can raise our relationships to a higher level by understanding that the other person is never the problem when we feel hurt. It is not…[more]

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Resentment

Letting go of painful resentments.

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Forgiveness

Finding forgiveness in being forgiven.

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Blame Game

There is no profit in blaming your lot in life on other people or an uncaring world. Escape the dark punishing captivity inherent in blame.

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Perfecting Relationship

The Secret of Pefecting Relationships

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Nurturing Love

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Relationships

Using relationships for inner development.

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10 Ways to Tell the World You've Lost Interest in Being You

The true spiritual path begins and ends with what you already are. Use these 10 insights to tell the world you've lost interest in being you.

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Free Yourself by Seeing Yourself: 9 Ways to Heal the Hidden Hurting in You

Consciousness of any unwanted condition in us must precede its correction, just as the rising sun dismisses the fear hiding in the darkness of night.

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Waking Up Together

The whole of our lives is relationship. The whole of our inner discovery takes place within relationship. Nothing can speed up our inner work better than working with someone who…[more]

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10 Ways to Make God's Life Your Own

10 Exercises for increasing your spiritual memory. Remember that every effort you make to remember to remember God increases His interest in you.