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“Throughout his prolific career Guy Finley's works have shown countless readers and workshop participants the way to develop the uniqueness that the Creator endowed in them and in each of us. In his latest book, The Seeker, The Search, The Sacred, he affords his audience the opportunity to go beyond reading and to participate in the individual and collective human development on a global scale.”

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Rise Above Runaway Reactions

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Practice the Pause that Spiritually Strengthens

Negative emotions cannot exist without having something to blame for their punishing presence.

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Positive Steps to Drop Negative States

Meekly submitting to any negative emotion in the hopes it will run its course and leave us alone just invites it to subjugate us again.

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Welcome the Light that Liberates You

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The Sure Cure for Whatever Disturbs You

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The Key to Self-Change

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The Freedom to Change Your Life Experience

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Free Yourself of Undetected Pressure

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End the Race to Going Nowhere Fast

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A Case of Mistaken Identity

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Avoid This Trap of Torment

The Living Light never shows us anything in ourselves that it hasn't already started to change for us.

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Discover the Self of Many Colors

In this short talk, Guy Finley talks about how we are intended to discover that who we really are, our true self, is a multi-colored palette of extraordinary possibilities.

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Learn to Turn to the Eternal

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Let Truth Tell You Who You Are

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Self-Healing Begins as Self-Hurting Ends

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The Power to Leave Painful Thoughts and Feelings Behind You

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Choose the Path of Freedom

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The Power of Being Watchful Instead of Willful

The more we imagine a fearless life created by conditions outside of us, the more compelled we feel to try and control those same conditions.

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A New Order of Self-Understanding

As we become more self-aware, a whole new order of understanding dawns.

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Gaze Into Your True Self

In this podcast, Guy Finley talks about how a still and attentive mind perfectly reflects the "presence" moment.

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Unmask the Hidden Power of All Negative States

We value negative states because of the strong sense of self we get from them.

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Make Being in Presence Your First Priority

In this podcast, Guy Finley talks about how the 'presence' moment always gives us everything that we need in the moment that it is needed.

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Love Song Music MP3

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A Lesson Learned is a Day Well Earned

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How to Realize New Possibilities

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The True Fruit of Life is the Vine

In this podcast, Guy Finley talks about why nothing is more valuable than true self-knowledge.

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Find Out What Your Life is For

When you begin to be for God before you're for yourself, then God will begin to be there before you.

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Six Words to Help You Drop Any Dark State

In this short talk, Guy Finley talks about a new action we can take to find freedom from negative states.

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Learn to Wait on What is Holy

In this short talk, Guy Finley talks about how any moment can be used to remember our wish to be in the presence of what is good.

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Treasure the Truth About Yourself

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Learn to Wait on the Divine

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Articles of Higher Consciousness

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Receive the Real Gift of God's Love for You

In this short talk, Guy Finley talks about how true spirituality is all about being receptive to the lessons that love wants us to learn about ourselves.

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Get Started on the Higher Path to Selfless Living

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Stop Fighting Confusion and Stormy Emotions

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How Anxiety Imprisons You in a World of Empty Promises

Anxious thoughts and feelings keep us a prisoner in the world of their empty promises.

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Let Self-Knowledge Light the Way Ahead

The wise are not those most learned, but the best tempered by truths put to the test of life.

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Build a Spiritual Fire for Your Heart

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Strengthen Your Connection to the Timeless Life

You'll never know how forgetful of your self you are until you make the smallest effort to be self-remembering.

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Stay Awake Behind the Wheel of Life

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The Strange Non-Life of the False Self

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Break the Spell of Self-Limiting Negative States

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The Gift of Meditation

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Seek the Source of True Self-Mastery

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Be Eternally Refreshed

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Why No One is More Special Than You Are

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Reflections on the Real

In this revealing podcast, Guy Finley talks about how attending to the true needs of others also allows us to discover our own limitless possibilities.

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A Fascinating Fact About Real Feelings

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Free Yourself from Unwanted Circumstances

Guy Finley reminds us that the truth never causes pain.

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Let Life Give You What You Need

We can gain new self-knowledge, explains Guy Finley, through the observation of the fact that everything is changing.

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The Sure Cure for a Sinking Spirit

In this podcast, Guy Finley talks about how resistance to any negative state such as anger, anxiety, or fear does not help diminish the state, but instead actually causes the…[more]

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Welcome Truth's Light and Make Everything Right for You

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The Secret for Successful Living

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Let Life Touch You

In this podcast, Guy Finley talks about what it would mean to allow every impression that touches your heart and mind to stir you as it is intended.

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A Short Commentary on Remembering Yourself

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Transformational Living

Discover the authentic spiritual and esoteric secrets for truly transformational living.

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Learn to Be the Instrument of Life

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Letting Go: A Little Bit at a Time

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Be Stronger Than Anything That Frightens You

The seemingly scary condition, whatever it may be, is not the problem. It is your reaction that is fearful. This is why if you will become conscious of your condition…[more]

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Open Yourself to Real Life and Find True Liberation

In this podcast, best-selling author Guy Finley presents an extremely helpful and practical exercise that--if you will do what is required on your part--can instantly change your day and your…[more]

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Detect, Stop, and Drop Inner "Voices"

Any time is the right time to go quiet, explains author Guy Finley.

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Challenge Fear's Right to Rule Your Life

The seemingly scary condition, whatever it may be, is not the problem, says Guy Finley. It is your reaction that is fearful.

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The Great Lesson Behind Self-Liberation

We are created -- and each of us is intended, explains Guy Finley -- to discover the truth of ourselves within ourselves.

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Why You Should Feel Encouraged

The light from one small moment of honest self-inquiry, explains Guy Finley, is more powerful than the accumulated darkness of a million years of doubt.

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Unmask the Three Thieves of Peace

One reason why negative states sneak in so easily to steal our peace, explains Guy Finley, is that we have been conditioned to believe in their right to punish us.

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Discover the Treasure of Your True Nature

Awakening to who we are created to be, explains Guy Finley, is the first step in letting go of all that holds us captive.

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Enlightening is Better than Igniting Yourself!

Guy Finley explains how rising above the blame game is the same as learning how to be in total command of yourself.

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Stop Struggling with Others

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Transcend the Limitations of Self-Centered Love

One of the most shocking and necessary discoveries along the path, explains Guy Finley, is that what we love does not love us

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Journey Beyond Fear

Counter to popular opinion, real success is not measured by the amount of our possessions. Simply stated, the truth is that real success -- ultimately the only success -- is…[more]

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For True Self-Command Just Stop, Look, and Listen

When the false self throws terrifying shadows, says Guy Finley, you must work to cast Inner Light.

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A Wise and Winning Way to Look at Your Life

efore we can enter, and live in, the higher realm of the Free Mind, explains Guy Finley, we must learn to see our life through its eyes.

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Be Yourself and Be Complete

There is no substitute, explains Guy Finley, for seeing the truth of our actual spiritual situation.

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Be the Ruler of Your Own Reactions

Who you really are, explains Guy Finley, is an endless learning ground, a limitless possibility for higher and higher self-discovery.

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Erase Those Fearful Feelings

Being conscious of your fear, explains Guy Finley, empowers you to interact with it in an entirely new way.

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Leave the "Victim Level" of Life Behind You

Guy Finley explains how living from a mind that automatically assumes suffering is real, gives you no choice other than to remain a perpetual victim.

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Practice the Principle of Being Present

Use the powerful principles presented in this talk to step out of the pain-filled worlds of imagination, and into the one True world of authentic inner-peace.

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Step Up and Away from Punishing Feelings

We punish ourselves with unhappy feelings, explains Guy Finley, because we've been tricked into thinking self-hurt is self-help.

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Abolish Harmful Inner Voices

Working with self-observation, we can actually see, explains Guy Finley, that these self-compromising thoughts are just that: thoughts.

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Dare to Slow Down Your Life

By deliberately slowing yourself down, explains Guy Finley, when everything in you seems to be screaming, "Rush," you will become inwardly awake.

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The Power to Doubt and Dismiss Any Problem

Here is the secret to releasing physical tension and mental pain from your life forever. Learn these three simple steps and you will never be the same again.

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The Little Boy Who Laughed Away the "Haunted" House

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An Advanced Lesson in Letting Go

The real act of letting go, explains Guy Finley, is first an interior action, followed, if needful, by a wiser exterior action.

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A Magical Prescription for More Positive Living

It is not negative to see the negative in us, explains Guy Finley, since it is the perfectly positive that makes this kind of seeing into ourselves possible.

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The Will and the Way to be Inwardly Still

When it feels as though the world is whirling around us, explains Guy Finley, what we need to understand is that the whirling is not outside of us but is…[more]

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Stop This Secret Self-Sabotage

We're often led to act against ourselves by an undetected weakness that goes before us -- trying to pass itself off to others -- as a strength. This is secret…[more]

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Discovering the Depths of Your True Self

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How to Develop a New Attitude and a New Altitude in Life

A young woman once decided that her best chance of getting hired by a company doing geological survey work in the Alaskan wilderness was to earn a private license to…[more]

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Fulfill the Higher Plan for Healing Whatever Pains You

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The Strength of a Silent Mind

One of the most powerful forces in the universe, explains Guy Finley, is Silence.

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How to Defeat What is Defeating You

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Giving Yourself Up Is Lifting Yourself Up

Understanding that we are not our thoughts and feelings, explains Guy Finley, is the first step towards stopping them from ruling our lives.

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To Open the Eyes That See

A poem by Guy Finley which expresses gratitude for Higher Love.

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The Path to Peace Already Present

A stirring writing by Guy Finley revealing the real path to peace. Originally presented at the 2005 Talks in the Pines Series, "The Illusion of Limitation: The Liberation of Self."

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Letting Go into the Flow of Real Life

This Now, the real Now, explains Guy Finley, is a perfect integration -- a dynamic mutual convergence of all the creative forces, which is always stirring.

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Abandon Your Usual Ways of Thinking

The foundation of self-observation, explains Guy Finley, is a higher self-awareness that puts you in direct contact with a new and superior Intelligence.

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Slowly I Turn

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The Price One Must Pay

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Two Ways to Raise Your Level of Spiritual Freedom

We are spiritually free, explains Guy Finley, when not one part of us harbors any hatred or resentment for any other human being.

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Attention

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How to Let Go of Helpless Feelings

Any direction we take to get away from some misery, explains Guy Finley, is the continuation of that distress.

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Ten Truths That Prove You Have Nothing to Lose

Guy Finley gives us ten ways to see through the false thoughts that would have us believe we must suffer because of them.

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Two-In-One Undone

A short yet powerful poem by Guy Finley that reveals the wrong pursuits we get caught in each time we try to escape from understanding our real interior condition. If…[more]

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Break Through to a Totally New You

By rising above any self-righteousness that wants us to blame others for how we feel, explains Guy Finley, we gain an entirely new perspective on this useless reaction and learn…[more]

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Make the Fear of Being "No One" Fade Away

Looking for ourselves in the eyes of others throws us behind the walls of a psychic prison. The door slams shut each time we find ourselves feeling good about ourselves…[more]

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Freedom

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Wake Up and Be Free of Fear and Worries

Instead of letting fear lead you off the path and into the dark, explains Guy Finley, remain true to your course and watch it disappear.

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Rushing

Guy Finley suggests specific exercises to help you step out of the rush and stop being driven by anxious states. Learn new ways to wake up and develop self-command.

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This Key Unlocks the Door to a New Kind of Freedom

The true answer to any problem we find ourselves in is not found in our thoughts about it, but rather in our willingness to allow new light to reveal its…[more]

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Steps to Possessing Your True Self

Guy Finley teaches us that as we begin to remember our true intentions in the moments when we need them most, we break the repetitious circle of Self that never…[more]

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The Secret of Making a New and True Beginning

Guy Finley explains that a new and true future begins with planting seeds of change in the now.

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Kindness

Kindness is something we all value and wish we are known for. Learn how to make kindness alive in your life.

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Taking Your Part in Perfect Intelligence

By working with our resistance to others, Guy Finley explains that we ultimately learn about our own true nature, out of which compassion is born.

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Spiritual Weakness

Understanding our spiritual weakness is the key to following through on our good intentions.

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Self-Awareness

Guy Finley addresses common questions on the topic of self-awareness.

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With Eyes to See

A poem by Guy Finley on the wonders of contemplation.

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Thought

Guy Finley shows you a whole new way to live that is free from the punishment of self-wrecking thoughts.

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Discover Your Power of Higher Choice

Discover the hidden Truth about negative states such as fear, worry, anger, and depression. Guy Finley reveals that the reason these states hold us captive is because of our willing…[more]

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Spiritual Stillness

Guy Finley reveals the unknown treasures hidden in spritual stillness.

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True Silence

Understanding true peace and security.

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Painful Patterns

Breaking out of old painful patterns, habits, and recuring problems.

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Self-Protection

Self-Protection is, and has always been, nothing but a self-limiting reaction that we cling to in the darkness of our present life-level.

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Selfless Living

Selfless Living: How to Enter Into Perfect Communion Where God is Your Life!

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Suffering

Find the Secret Solution to Help End World Suffering!

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Self-Help

True self-help through transcendence, not struggle.

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Look in the Right Direction 

The answers to all of life's questions can be found WITHIN you. Three ways to start asking the right questions.

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Spirituality

Spirituality is the Upper Path begining in the moment where the lower path is no longer tolerable.

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Healing

Healing the cause of all pain and suffering!

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10 Small Steps to Real Self-Knowledge

10 steps to help you to outgrow yourself by venturing into the unknown.

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10 Ways to Make God's Life Your Own

10 Exercises for increasing your spiritual memory. Remember that every effort you make to remember to remember God increases His interest in you.

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The Secret of Owning Your Own Life

Discover ten powerful new ways to begin changing your view of your own life. Plus learn the one power greater than any disturbance.

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Spiritual Practices and the Presence of God

Spiritual Practices and the Presence of God

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Abolish Harmful Inner Voices

Bring more light into your life by patient inner investigation.

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How to Make All of Life be Just For You

How to be for yourself by being for the Truth.

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This Key Unlocks The Door To The Free Mind

Face challenges with the key that unlocks the door to a free mind.

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Take the Road

It does not matter how you take the road. All that really matters is that you take it.

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Remember to Remember

Cling Fast to Your Aim and Strive to Be True

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The Good Work of Giving Yourself Up

Cycling of vanity with life-in-vain goes on until you see the cost of a self-filling self. Then you commence on the good work of giving yourself up.