Realized or not... our path (through life) is largely set by unseen parts of ourselves, and we follow blindly where they lead; only awakening to this fact has the power to change our choices, and what they secretly serve. Where rather than compulsively struggling to satisfy some imagined desire, we prefer to know the nature of what has suggested it to us; and then, by the light of our new awareness, to decide if this desire serves us truly... or not.