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The way we think of ourselves is a reflection of our past; Learn to live with what you see; Ideas are not action, knowledge is not wisdom; You suffer over your present understanding; Love never interferes with another person's life; All of your actions have ambition in them; There is no reaction without position; You are here to outgrow a level of consciousness; Real acts of will...
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All identification is dependency; Awareness is seeing without a center; The mind is always trying to dissect life; Every wish to change something in your life is produced by fear; A thought has no substance, it's a representation of something; Fear is built-in to dependency; The way out of your pain is through humility; You must struggle with your weakness instead of use it as an excuse...
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Topic: Rise Above the Unconscious Source of Any Painful Addiction (11/10/19 Classroom Talk)
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Topic: Rise Above the Unconscious Source of Any Painful Addiction (11/10/19 Classroom Talk)
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Classroom Talk: 11/10/2019 - For too long we've believed that whatever limitation we meet in ourselves -- in some unwanted moment -- would not exist were it not for that same unwanted moment in which we meet it. It's just not true. The real limitation is how instantly identified we become with a fearful reaction "telling" us that we...
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Topics Covered: What is the difference between little "I's" and the whole of the divine; I've battled with anxiety and Obsessive Compulsive Disorder since my late teens and don't know how to practice the higher ideas I learn; How do I help a young student in my classroom who is rude and hateful; Is conscience a conduit of truth.
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$0.00We are not meant to keep our eye on some "tomorrow" from which we blindly borrow the false pleasure of what "might be." Such dreams serve nothing save the sleeping self, an imagined sense of "self" that always realizes, too late, that its "hope in things seen" is the same as tomorrow's sorrow.
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$0.00Featured Study Group Topic for the Week of June 18, 2018. Our unconscious agreement to identify with the pain of any negative state - including the usual (anxious) rush to escape it - is one of the ways our false nature suffers - in vain - to prove (to itself) that whatever "self" it imagines, and then pretends to be is, in fact, real.
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$0.00Featured Study Group Topic for the Week of May 7, 2018. Let every search for a solution to the suffering you feel begin in the unlit corners of your own consciousness, and soon you will never again wonder "why" you feel the worries, fear, and the bitterness that you do.
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$0.00Featured Study Group Topic for the Week of February 26, 2018. Any old and particularly familiar pain that repeats itself does so for a single reason: we believe that we understand the reason for its appearance, when nothing could be further from the truth... as evidenced by the reappearance of that suffering.
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$0.00The more you imagine a problem, the more real it becomes.
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$0.00Featured Study Group Topic for the Week of October 23, 2017. You can't be renewed by real Life, and relive your life at the same time. When you can see that with each heartbeat creation is made anew then -- in that same moment -- So will you be, too. Learn More -
$0.00Everyone wants to be illuminated, but few are the True who are willing to enter the flame that consumes all, but that never burns twice. Learn More -
$0.00The energy of life is always washing over you... but when you don't know what to do with that energy, you become dependent on conditions outside of you to stimulate a sense of self, and then become fearful anytime those conditions change.
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$0.00Topics covered: One insatiable quality of the sleeping human being is the notion of its perfection; Moment to moment, we do exactly what our nature wants, and nothing more; Real change is always at the end of something; Everything we get negative about, we're bragging about; There's no relief in real self-understanding; Analysis by magnetics; The tone of your voice expresses all that's behind... Learn More -
$0.00Topics covered: You don't choose things the way you think you do; The solution to the problem is found in awakening to it; This work is about the gradual discovery of Real I; The experience of the moment must be left alone; Experience is the moment of awareness produced through a condition; Life on earth is all about letting go, but you can't let go of anything that 'you' still want; Transform... Learn More -
$0.00Featured Study Group Topic for the Week of August 22, 2016. The more some thought or feeling prompts you to rush, or pushes you to run toward a place where some anticipated rest awaits, the more you should work to slow down that you might see -- 'I' to 'I' -- the unconscious level of self that -- with one hand -- points to a 'peace just ahead'... even as its other hand is stirring up a sense o... Learn More -
$0.00Topics covered: Resistance belongs to and is inseparable from what I am identified with; You must never lose sight of your interior environment; Being attached to the idea of control; The struggle of the magicians; A wave is a single movement; The true meaning of the word temptation is consenting to do the evil I don't want to do; There is a nature that exists only to be opposed to everything. Learn More -
$0.00Topic: Spiritual Profitability: Why the Easy Way Is the Wrong Way; Questions: What is the difference between thought and contemplation; How much should I help others who are in need; What is the soul; Working with the 'I will be with you' exercise is draining; Is everything that stirs us up, whether good or bad, a reflection of what we don't know about ourselves. Learn More -
$0.00Topics covered: Discussion of Guy's new 'Relationship Magic' course; How unwanted moments serve to change our consciousness; Relationships are intended to be a ceaseless stirring; The reason why relationships end up in a mess; Understanding the purpose of pain; Why we are drawn to certain people; The illusion that we are different from one another; The real purpose of relationships; Discoverin... Learn More -
$0.00Featured Study Group Topic for the Week of April 11, 2016. Part 1: If the 'grass is always greener on the other side of the hill'... Then it must be that neither side of that hill has the power to grant you the peace and prosperity that draws you to it... over and over again! Part 2: Ask not for possessions, or the powers they seem to grant, but rather ask for Wisdom; for powers and possession... Learn More -
$0.00Featured Study Group Topic for the Week of December 7, 2015. Part 1: The tension of creation is reconciled by the awareness of it. Part 2: Awareness of the opposites reveals higher possibilities that don't even exist to our lower level of self whose imagined sense of individuality is but a fleeting dream... an illusion born of being momentarily identified with one or the other of the opposites... Learn More -
$0.00Topics covered: In effortless relationship, you give yourself effortlessly; All forms of wrong internal considerations are from association; You have no say over the essence you're given at birth; The work brings you together with all types; There is no 'you' -- there's what's awake and what is asleep; There's an unspoken, deeply seeded sense of importance when judging; We live from a nature t... Learn More -
$0.00There is a natural balancing of body, mind, and heart as an aspirant immerses themselves in new understanding and self-knowledge. Learn More -
$0.00The more any one of your own thoughts or feelings tries to hurry, or otherwise push you along, the more you should work inwardly to slow down and to meet, directly, that part of yourself that promises you peace 'just ahead'... as long as you agree to endure its pain first. Learn More -
$0.00In this brief sound bite, Guy Finley talks about the root cause of all the pain and anger we experience when something that we thought we possessed is taken away from us.
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$0.00Guy Finley talks about how Truth will never stop trying to help us see and drop the psychological "baggage" that we unconsciously carry around with us.
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$0.00Any part of you that wants you to feel bad, angry, or sorry for yourself, including any thoughts or feelings it calls upon to help explain why you must ache, is the secret partner of the very pain it resists. This unholy negative nature exists for one reason only: to ensure that you continue contributing to the suffering it first creates, and then sustains with your unconscious consent. Learn More -
$0.00The wish -- and the work it takes to make real and lasting changes (in your life) -- is incompatible with wanting to be comfortable. Learn More -
$0.00Topics covered: There's no difference between a so-called 'big' fear and a 'little' fear; The real benefit of revelation through spiritual work is humility; Emptiness and fear belong to a nature governed by the opposites; Nothing of this world can answer the need of what was sown into you by the higher world; Giving in to your desire doesn't make it go away; A teaching awakens people to the la... Learn More -
$0.00Topics covered: We live in a world that increasingly passes the buck; As thought becomes unable to deal with its problems, it turns to physical relief; No one else is responsible for your experience of the moment; Your work is to bring you to a place where you have no idea what is going on; The purpose of a sun is to illuminate the space into which it has been thrust -- in scale, this is a hum... Learn More -
$0.00Topics covered: Why do I fall repeatedly into the same unsupportive patterns; Why is Truth so difficult to know and experience; Is it true that the next step is 'graced from above' and not under my control; How do I not judge and criticize my husband when we don't agree; How do I carry my spiritual success over into my financial life; It's easier to watch my thoughts in the morning and evening... Learn More -
$0.00Seen through the eyes of higher self-knowledge, our weaknesses, whatever their nature, are (each) the secret seed of a new strength unlike anything imagined in our unending dream of overcoming what now defeats us. Learn More -
$0.00It's impossible to be in touch with Real Life without being awake to and aware of the interior parts of yourself that life is always touching. Learn More -
$0.00Only through our willingness to be made aware of all that we are -- high and low, light and dark -- will we ever come to realize the perfect freedom now lying dormant in our own celestial possibilities. Learn More -
$0.00Resistance recreates and then reinstates whatever it opposes, including the sleeping level of self that tries, in vain, to escape the pain of the opposing forces that created it. Learn More -
$0.00One can't 'want' and 'be' at the same time, because the being of wanting is of the 'earth,' and the wanting of being is of the Spirit. Learn More -
$0.00The reason it's so important to always go the "extra mile" in your inner work -- to do what you don't want to do, or feel like you can't do -- is that there is no other way for you to tap into a resource that only after you've expired all of your own. Learn More -
$0.00In this short talk, Guy Finley talks about why human beings are so addicted to stress and tension, and why it is so important for us to understand that something within us actually enjoys being anxious.
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$0.00The more you talk about yourself, the less people want to hear. Learn More -
$0.00If it ever upsets you that others don't support or won't confirm what you believe is true, then it is your grasp of what is Real that should be questioned, not theirs. Learn More -
$0.00Patience is power because it compassionately rules over whatever parts of us are moved to act against ourselves... or others. Learn More -
$0.00Guy Finley's monthly call-in radio show, Guy Finley LIVE! Topics covered: We must learn to use our actual lives, moment to moment, to work on ourselves and our freedom; All disturbances are meant to reveal where we are out of life's flow; You cannot and must not protect yourself from unwanted moments; There is no such thing as an unproductive moment; Events that take place in passing time are... Learn More -
$0.00The false self is very inventive; it's always busy creating - through imagination - some new way to make itself feel important. Learn More -
$0.00As surely as the alcoholic's familiar idea that "just one more" drink won't harm him - and that such thoughts necessarily constitute (a part of) his unconscious captivity - so too must the following be true, in scale: the one who accepts the limitations inherent in... Learn More -
$0.00In this Saturday discussion Guy answers questions about his book The Courage to Be Free. Learn More -
$0.00Topics explored in this dialogue: There is no end to "waking up" in this life; It isn't possible for a conscious human being to compromise themselves; Fear is an aspect of a divided mind; A pivotal point in a person's spiritual life is when they cast aside the foolish notion that a negative state can do anything for them... Learn More -
$0.00Guy Finley's monthly call-in radio show "Guy Finley LIVE!" broadcast on HealthyLife.net. Topics explored in this show: You can't judge someone without feeling pain; Judgment is a defense mechanism even though it seems like an attack mechanism; Any moment spent rushing towards something to create your happiness only serves to confirm your unhappiness; No one can be true to another human being w... Learn More -
$0.00Our spirit is not meant to sink. At any given moment, we can tell what we are living from by the way we see the world around us. We are not meant to live with a heavy heart, but at present we do not know what else to do. There is no denying the fact that, at times, life can weigh heavily upon our hearts and minds, but we can remain aware of the heaviness instead of consenting to live under it.
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$0.00Informal discussion led by Guy Finley at Life of Learning Foundation on 9/19/09. Learn More -
$0.00Interview with Maggie McCauley of "A New View" on 7/14/09. Topics explored in this dialogue: The inner determines the outer, Letting go has nothing to do with the release of anything outside of yourself, Discovering who and what you really are. Learn More -
$0.00Looking to any person, place, possession, or power to answer our longing to be whole and free . . . is like searching the back of our bedroom closet in the hope of finding the entrance to King Solomon's mine. Learn More -
$0.00What's the difference between blaming someone else for the way you feel, and blaming yourself for something that you have done? There is no difference; they are both essentially the same. So what do blaming others and blaming yourself share in common? They are both an avoidance. We blame others for our negative states so that we don't have to do anything other than see the source of our suffe...
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$0.00Deriving your sense of self by identifying with the dilemma of another is like going to a tailor for a new suit and leaving the shop dressed in the clothes he was wearing when you walked in!... Learn More -
$0.00The parts of us that believe winning praise from others will release us from our painful hunger for that kind of approval belong to the same low level of self that first tempts us into eating what we know we shouldn't -- and that then calls us "Stupid!" for not knowing any better. Learn More -
$0.00No one finds freedom who believes their individual liberty depends on some consensus of how others view either their choices or character. Learn More -
$0.00In any moment of crisis, when we don't know who or what we should turn to, some form of fear is always happy to step in and to take the lead. Learn More -
$0.00ey Lesson: Those who turn and run away, who quit when life asks of them more than they seem to have in that hour, prove real only their fears -- and this is their sorrow. But let us press on past our doubts to make this glad discovery: the reason we mustn't give in is because persistence alone proves that Life never gives up on us; what we hope for is nothing compared to the hope that Real Life Learn More -
$0.00No one wants to be touched by the hand of suffering, so millions spend billions trying to outrun its cold touch. And yet, these are the unwise for a very unseen reason: into every life must come some rain, for without it what else can a heart become other than a desert that never blooms?... Learn More
