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  1. Let Go and Rise Above What Holds You Down
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    Let Go and Rise Above What Holds You Down

    • Posted: 11/26/12
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    Each time we see the need to let go of something -- a bad habit that drags us down, an unsatisfactory relationship, a career choice that can't complete us in the way we dreamed it would, or maybe unrealistic expectations of ours about others that eventually spoil our partnerships with them -- whatever it may be: what is it that's actually happened in these moments of honest self-examination? S...

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  2. The Key to a New Independent Life
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    The Key to a New Independent Life

    • Posted: 07/02/12
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    There are parts of us that would rather be punished by unkind people than have to spend one minute being alone, because the only way these same parts in us can exist is if they have someone to resent or somehow fear. In this case we remain in these ruinous relationships because the fear or emptiness we feel in even considering leaving them seems to be too much to bear on our own. Here's the k...

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  3. The Source of True Self-Liberation
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    The Source of True Self-Liberation

    • Posted: 05/28/12
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    You must learn to stop thinking in terms of beginnings and endings, successes and failures, and begin to treat everything in your life as a learning experience instead of a proving one.

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  4. Your Secret Power of Self-Disconnect
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    Your Secret Power of Self-Disconnect

    • Posted: 12/26/11
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    Deliberately disconnecting yourself from whatever you think has you blocked leads to true self-liberation because you have never been trapped by anything outside of your own lack of understanding.

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  5. Remember This Key to Self-Command
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    Remember This Key to Self-Command

    • Posted: 12/19/11
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    The key to regaining command of yourself in any moment you start to feel as though you're in a rush is to remember that who you are and what you are is made to be changing and transforming the moment you are in.

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  6. Unmask the Hidden Power of All Negative States
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    Unmask the Hidden Power of All Negative States

    • Posted: 10/29/11
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    One of the most difficult lessons we must face in our effort to win the war within ourselves has to do with the truth about our relationship with our own negative states: they fascinate us. That's right! But, why do we value them so? The answer will surprise you. We value negative states because of the strong sense of self we get from them. This may be very difficult for us to see, but a stro...

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  7. Let Go and Learn the Truth of Yourself
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    Let Go and Learn the Truth of Yourself

    • Posted: 08/27/11
    • Time: 00:05:53
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    In this short talk, Guy Finley talks about why human beings are so addicted to stress and tension, and why it is so important for us to understand that something within us actually enjoys being anxious.

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  8. How to Stop Giving Yourself Away!
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    How to Stop Giving Yourself Away!

    • Posted: 07/05/10
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    Time and time again, we come to the same spiritual lesson: no one can give us that which can only be found within our Self.

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  9. The Sure Cure for a Sinking Spirit
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    The Sure Cure for a Sinking Spirit

    • Posted: 11/17/09
    • Time: 00:05:36
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    Our spirit is not meant to sink. At any given moment, we can tell what we are living from by the way we see the world around us. We are not meant to live with a heavy heart, but at present we do not know what else to do. There is no denying the fact that, at times, life can weigh heavily upon our hearts and minds, but we can remain aware of the heaviness instead of consenting to live under it.

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  10. Blame Schmame
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    Blame Schmame

    • Posted: 04/25/09
    • Time: 00:06:29
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    What's the difference between blaming someone else for the way you feel, and blaming yourself for something that you have done? There is no difference; they are both essentially the same. So what do blaming others and blaming yourself share in common? They are both an avoidance. We blame others for our negative states so that we don't have to do anything other than see the source of our suffe...

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  11. Coming to the End of Codependency
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    Coming to the End of Codependency

    • Posted: 07/23/07
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    Whenever we consent to, or otherwise agree with anyone's dark assessment of his or her life, we are telling this person, "Yes, that is true (about you). No doubt life couldn't be any other way; after all . . . what else can you do?" In these sentiments is hidden a secret message that effectively says: "Sure . . . I understand the prison you are in and -- given your conditions -- it's only logi...

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  12. Student Q&A with Guy on "Escape the Unseen Prison of Painful Dependency" (11/15/23)
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    Student Q&A with Guy on "Escape the Unseen Prison of Painful Dependency" (11/15/23)

    • Posted: 11/16/23
    • Meeting: 11/15/23
    • Time: 00:21:14
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    Topics covered: How long do you want to live a life in which you can be carried off at any time, beaten up, and then released whenever your captor is done with you?; The beginning of the end of useless suffering is in seeing that, at present, you do not really know why you suffer. There is not one solution that you think you know that is going to save you; If you ever want to stop being thrown into a prison whenever conditions seem to conspire against you...

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The Essential Laws of Fearless Living

Here is your step-by-step guide to building the foundation of a fearless life. Learn how to see through the illusion of limitation and become unstoppable.

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