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  1. Saturday Student Q&A with Guy Finley (2/9/2019)
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    Topics Covered: What is the difference between little "I's" and the whole of the divine; I've battled with anxiety and Obsessive Compulsive Disorder since my late teens and don't know how to practice the higher ideas I learn; How do I help a young student in my classroom who is rude and hateful; Is conscience a conduit of truth.

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  2. Uncover the Real Source of "Tomorrow's Sorrow" (Student Talks)
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    We are not meant to keep our eye on some "tomorrow" from which we blindly borrow the false pleasure of what "might be." Such dreams serve nothing save the sleeping self, an imagined sense of "self" that always realizes, too late, that its "hope in things seen" is the same as tomorrow's sorrow.

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  3. Suicide & Addiction: The Untold Truth About the Path to Self-Destruction
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    Featured Study Group Topic for the Week of June 18, 2018. Our unconscious agreement to identify with the pain of any negative state - including the usual (anxious) rush to escape it - is one of the ways our false nature suffers - in vain - to prove (to itself) that whatever "self" it imagines, and then pretends to be is, in fact, real.

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  4. Wake Up and See the Way You are Starving Your Soul
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    Featured Study Group Topic for the Week of May 7, 2018. Let every search for a solution to the suffering you feel begin in the unlit corners of your own consciousness, and soon you will never again wonder "why" you feel the worries, fear, and the bitterness that you do.

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  5. Invite Higher Self-Knowledge to Lift You Above Worry, Doubt, Anger and Fear
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    Featured Study Group Topic for the Week of February 26, 2018. Any old and particularly familiar pain that repeats itself does so for a single reason: we believe that we understand the reason for its appearance, when nothing could be further from the truth... as evidenced by the reappearance of that suffering.

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  6. Nightmares Start Here (Student Talks)
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    The more you imagine a problem, the more real it becomes.

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  7. Use This Secret Strength to Release You from the Pain of the Past
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    Featured Study Group Topic for the Week of October 23, 2017. You can't be renewed by real Life, and relive your life at the same time. When you can see that with each heartbeat creation is made anew then -- in that same moment -- So will you be, too. Learn More
  8. Bounce Out of the Realm of Dual-Dumb
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    Everyone wants to be illuminated, but few are the True who are willing to enter the flame that consumes all, but that never burns twice. Learn More
  9. Drop the Unseen Dependency that's Dragging You Down in Life
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    Guy Finley explains why fear is a form of spiritual sickness, and what one must do to return to spiritual health.

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  10. The Corruption of Consciousness Through the Death of Attention
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    The energy of life is always washing over you... but when you don't know what to do with that energy, you become dependent on conditions outside of you to stimulate a sense of self, and then become fearful anytime those conditions change.

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  11. Saturdays with Guy (2/18/2017)
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    Topics covered: One insatiable quality of the sleeping human being is the notion of its perfection; Moment to moment, we do exactly what our nature wants, and nothing more; Real change is always at the end of something; Everything we get negative about, we're bragging about; There's no relief in real self-understanding; Analysis by magnetics; The tone of your voice expresses all that's behind... Learn More
  12. Use the End of A Bad Relationship to Change Your Life
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    Guy Finley reveals that the "self" that grieves over an unwanted event is the same level of self that dragged you into the situation in the first place. We have the capacity to use the shock of that realization to wake up and let go of the pain.

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  13. Saturdays with Guy (2/4/2017)
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    Topics covered: You don't choose things the way you think you do; The solution to the problem is found in awakening to it; This work is about the gradual discovery of Real I; The experience of the moment must be left alone; Experience is the moment of awareness produced through a condition; Life on earth is all about letting go, but you can't let go of anything that 'you' still want; Transform... Learn More
  14. Discover The Way Out From the Harmful Effects of Anti Depressant Medication
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    Guy Finley addresses the path to freedom from addictive medications. Change is possible, and we are created to be free from everything that now holds us captive.

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  15. Call on the Truth to Triumph Over This Temptation
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    Featured Study Group Topic for the Week of August 22, 2016. The more some thought or feeling prompts you to rush, or pushes you to run toward a place where some anticipated rest awaits, the more you should work to slow down that you might see -- 'I' to 'I' -- the unconscious level of self that -- with one hand -- points to a 'peace just ahead'... even as its other hand is stirring up a sense o... Learn More
  16. Saturdays with Guy (8/6/2016)
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    Topics covered: Resistance belongs to and is inseparable from what I am identified with; You must never lose sight of your interior environment; Being attached to the idea of control; The struggle of the magicians; A wave is a single movement; The true meaning of the word temptation is consenting to do the evil I don't want to do; There is a nature that exists only to be opposed to everything. Learn More
  17. Saturday Student Q&A with Guy Finley (5/28/2016)
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    Topic: Spiritual Profitability: Why the Easy Way Is the Wrong Way; Questions: What is the difference between thought and contemplation; How much should I help others who are in need; What is the soul; Working with the 'I will be with you' exercise is draining; Is everything that stirs us up, whether good or bad, a reflection of what we don't know about ourselves. Learn More
  18. The Inner Frontier with Darlene Green
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    Topics covered: Discussion of Guy's new 'Relationship Magic' course; How unwanted moments serve to change our consciousness; Relationships are intended to be a ceaseless stirring; The reason why relationships end up in a mess; Understanding the purpose of pain; Why we are drawn to certain people; The illusion that we are different from one another; The real purpose of relationships; Discoverin... Learn More
  19. The One Way to Ask For and Receive the New True You
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    Featured Study Group Topic for the Week of April 11, 2016. Part 1: If the 'grass is always greener on the other side of the hill'... Then it must be that neither side of that hill has the power to grant you the peace and prosperity that draws you to it... over and over again! Part 2: Ask not for possessions, or the powers they seem to grant, but rather ask for Wisdom; for powers and possession... Learn More
  20. Refuse Abuse, Within and Without
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    Guy Finley explains that anyone who remains in an abusive relationship of any kind does so only because of his or her own weakness and unconscious agreement. As we work to separate ourselves inwardly from the false belief that we cannot live without the acknowledgement of others, we will come to know true inner freedom no matter what our exterior conditions may be.

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  21. How to Call On Your Own Guardian Angel
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    Featured Study Group Topic for the Week of December 7, 2015. Part 1: The tension of creation is reconciled by the awareness of it. Part 2: Awareness of the opposites reveals higher possibilities that don't even exist to our lower level of self whose imagined sense of individuality is but a fleeting dream... an illusion born of being momentarily identified with one or the other of the opposites... Learn More
  22. Saturdays with Guy (9/19/2015)
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    Topics covered: In effortless relationship, you give yourself effortlessly; All forms of wrong internal considerations are from association; You have no say over the essence you're given at birth; The work brings you together with all types; There is no 'you' -- there's what's awake and what is asleep; There's an unspoken, deeply seeded sense of importance when judging; We live from a nature t... Learn More
  23. Recognize and Reject Sick Spirits
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    Sadly for those deceived, and dangerous for the spiritually unwary they encounter, many humans have unknowingly abandoned themselves to dark spirits in exchange for the strong sense of self the presence of such negative energies provides as it courses through them. These souls who are taken over don't know their actual state as part of the "pleasure" in their condition is their certainty that...

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  24. Climb Up to True Independence
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    Depending on others for a sense of independent psychological well-being is an accident waiting to happen. In any relationship where one depends on his or her partner to be their parachute and the other accepts this role, both will fall to the ground. You do not have to live with this kind of fear for one more moment. Give yourself permission to see the whole truth about human nature and its af...

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  25. The Journey of Unifying Body, Mind, and Heart
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    There is a natural balancing of body, mind, and heart as an aspirant immerses themselves in new understanding and self-knowledge. Learn More
  26. Say No to the 'CIO' (Chief Intimidation Officer)
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    The more any one of your own thoughts or feelings tries to hurry, or otherwise push you along, the more you should work inwardly to slow down and to meet, directly, that part of yourself that promises you peace 'just ahead'... as long as you agree to endure its pain first. Learn More
  27. The Real Root of All Rage Revealed
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    In this brief sound bite, Guy Finley talks about the root cause of all the pain and anger we experience when something that we thought we possessed is taken away from us.

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  28. Choose to Change Now
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    You can't change the kind of person you are later. There is no later. It's always now or never. You can't be kind later. And you can't learn later. Choose to change now, and that moment will never come for you to worry about how to be better next time. Why? Because your conscious choice for real change in the present moment automatically cancels the need for a better you in a better future...

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  29. Catch Yourself Before Acting From Weakness
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    Any time we pretend to be something we're not, we do so out of fear that without that "persona" to protect us we won't get what we want.

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  30. Detect and Reject Despair
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    The secret purpose of that self-loathing nature in us -- that wants us to suffer today for what we could not do yesterday -- is not there to help us make straight our mistakes, but rather to ensure that we waste the rest of our days struggling to escape the ache of useless regrets. Awake! Detect and reject despair! It is not the guiding light it seems to be, but it is a cold heat that compromi...

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  31. No One Hurts You in the Now But You
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    Guy Finley talks about how Truth will never stop trying to help us see and drop the psychological "baggage" that we unconsciously carry around with us.

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  32. Learn to Accept What Life Would Teach You
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    Though we often find ourselves feeling so, in truth... there is no such thing as being powerless. We see how a person who resists life -- who hates or fears unwanted changes -- becomes the instrument of a power that effectively renders him powerless to do anything but struggle. But we've seen the converse as well: the one who realizes that the only power negative states have is to create the i...

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  33. Don't "Dance" with Painful Thoughts and Feelings
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    In this video, Guy tells an enlightening and entertaining spiritual story about a young woman who gets carried away with "dance partners" -- thoughts and feelings -- that don't have her best interests at heart. After being "mugged" by these "partners" numerous times, she finally realizes what she must do to find freedom...

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  34. Stop Agreeing to be Partners with Pain
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    Any part of you that wants you to feel bad, angry, or sorry for yourself, including any thoughts or feelings it calls upon to help explain why you must ache, is the secret partner of the very pain it resists. This unholy negative nature exists for one reason only: to ensure that you continue contributing to the suffering it first creates, and then sustains with your unconscious consent. Learn More
  35. The Value of Meeting Inner Disturbance: Keys for Real and Lasting Change
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    The wish -- and the work it takes to make real and lasting changes (in your life) -- is incompatible with wanting to be comfortable. Learn More
  36. Practice Getting Out of Your Own Way
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    In spite of how things may appear to us, we are never trapped by where we are. The trap is always who we are.

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  37. Saturdays with Guy (12/8/2012)
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    Topics covered: There's no difference between a so-called 'big' fear and a 'little' fear; The real benefit of revelation through spiritual work is humility; Emptiness and fear belong to a nature governed by the opposites; Nothing of this world can answer the need of what was sown into you by the higher world; Giving in to your desire doesn't make it go away; A teaching awakens people to the la... Learn More
  38. Let Go and Rise Above What Holds You Down
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    Each time we see the need to let go of something -- a bad habit that drags us down, an unsatisfactory relationship, a career choice that can't complete us in the way we dreamed it would, or maybe unrealistic expectations of ours about others that eventually spoil our partnerships with them -- whatever it may be: what is it that's actually happened in these moments of honest self-examination? S...

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  39. Saturdays with Guy (10/6/2012)
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    Topics covered: We live in a world that increasingly passes the buck; As thought becomes unable to deal with its problems, it turns to physical relief; No one else is responsible for your experience of the moment; Your work is to bring you to a place where you have no idea what is going on; The purpose of a sun is to illuminate the space into which it has been thrust -- in scale, this is a hum... Learn More
  40. Saturday Q&A with Guy Finley (8/18/2012)
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    Topics covered: Why do I fall repeatedly into the same unsupportive patterns; Why is Truth so difficult to know and experience; Is it true that the next step is 'graced from above' and not under my control; How do I not judge and criticize my husband when we don't agree; How do I carry my spiritual success over into my financial life; It's easier to watch my thoughts in the morning and evening... Learn More
  41. Sow the Seeds of Your Own True Independence
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    Seen through the eyes of higher self-knowledge, our weaknesses, whatever their nature, are (each) the secret seed of a new strength unlike anything imagined in our unending dream of overcoming what now defeats us. Learn More
  42. The Key to a New Independent Life
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    There are parts of us that would rather be punished by unkind people than have to spend one minute being alone, because the only way these same parts in us can exist is if they have someone to resent or somehow fear. In this case we remain in these ruinous relationships because the fear or emptiness we feel in even considering leaving them seems to be too much to bear on our own. Here's the k...

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  43. The Source of True Self-Liberation
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    You must learn to stop thinking in terms of beginnings and endings, successes and failures, and begin to treat everything in your life as a learning experience instead of a proving one.

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  44. Let Real Life Touch You Awake
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    It's impossible to be in touch with Real Life without being awake to and aware of the interior parts of yourself that life is always touching. Learn More
  45. The Evolution of Darkness
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    Only through our willingness to be made aware of all that we are -- high and low, light and dark -- will we ever come to realize the perfect freedom now lying dormant in our own celestial possibilities. Learn More
  46. Release Yourself From Useless Resistance
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    Resistance recreates and then reinstates whatever it opposes, including the sleeping level of self that tries, in vain, to escape the pain of the opposing forces that created it. Learn More
  47. Your Secret Power of Self-Disconnect
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    Deliberately disconnecting yourself from whatever you think has you blocked leads to true self-liberation because you have never been trapped by anything outside of your own lack of understanding.

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  48. Remember This Key to Self-Command
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    The key to regaining command of yourself in any moment you start to feel as though you're in a rush is to remember that who you are and what you are is made to be changing and transforming the moment you are in.

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  49. Unmask the Hidden Power of All Negative States
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    One of the most difficult lessons we must face in our effort to win the war within ourselves has to do with the truth about our relationship with our own negative states: they fascinate us. That's right! But, why do we value them so? The answer will surprise you. We value negative states because of the strong sense of self we get from them. This may be very difficult for us to see, but a stro...

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  50. Turn Painful Tension Into Heavenly Pleasure
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    One can't 'want' and 'be' at the same time, because the being of wanting is of the 'earth,' and the wanting of being is of the Spirit. Learn More
  51. Live in the World Above the Laws That Hold You Captive
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    The reason it's so important to always go the "extra mile" in your inner work -- to do what you don't want to do, or feel like you can't do -- is that there is no other way for you to tap into a resource that only after you've expired all of your own. Learn More
  52. Let Go and Learn the Truth of Yourself
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    In this short talk, Guy Finley talks about why human beings are so addicted to stress and tension, and why it is so important for us to understand that something within us actually enjoys being anxious.

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  53. No Amount of Approval Can Make What Isn't Real... Real
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    The more you talk about yourself, the less people want to hear. Learn More
  54. Being Real Begins Here
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    If it ever upsets you that others don't support or won't confirm what you believe is true, then it is your grasp of what is Real that should be questioned, not theirs. Learn More
  55. The Twin Powers of Self-Transformation
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    Patience is power because it compassionately rules over whatever parts of us are moved to act against ourselves... or others. Learn More
  56. Let Go and Flow with Real Life (Interview #1)
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    Guy Finley's monthly call-in radio show, Guy Finley LIVE! Topics covered: We must learn to use our actual lives, moment to moment, to work on ourselves and our freedom; All disturbances are meant to reveal where we are out of life's flow; You cannot and must not protect yourself from unwanted moments; There is no such thing as an unproductive moment; Events that take place in passing time are... Learn More
  57. Outgrow the Dark Weeds of Worry, Fear and Depression
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    The false self is very inventive; it's always busy creating - through imagination - some new way to make itself feel important. Learn More
  58. Escape the Prison of Painful Patterns
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    As surely as the alcoholic's familiar idea that "just one more" drink won't harm him - and that such thoughts necessarily constitute (a part of) his unconscious captivity - so too must the following be true, in scale: the one who accepts the limitations inherent in... Learn More
  59. Saturdays with Guy (8/7/2010)
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    In this Saturday discussion Guy answers questions about his book The Courage to Be Free. Learn More
  60. How to Stop Giving Yourself Away!
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    Time and time again, we come to the same spiritual lesson: no one can give us that which can only be found within our Self.

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  61. Interview hosted by Michelle Skaletski-Boyd
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    Topics explored in this dialogue: There is no end to "waking up" in this life; It isn't possible for a conscious human being to compromise themselves; Fear is an aspect of a divided mind; A pivotal point in a person's spiritual life is when they cast aside the foolish notion that a negative state can do anything for them... Learn More
  62. How to Stop the Spiritually Sick from Infecting You
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    Those with whom we assemble we will soon resemble, so the simple old saying goes. Yet it tells of a deep truth. It says that who we are -- the stuff of our soul at present -- is being transformed continuously by the nature of the company we keep; so that, in our essence we are always moving and evolving towards a kind of psychic oneness with whatever relationships we have revolving around us t...

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  63. The Rush to Judgment is a Race No One Wins
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    Guy Finley's monthly call-in radio show "Guy Finley LIVE!" broadcast on HealthyLife.net. Topics explored in this show: You can't judge someone without feeling pain; Judgment is a defense mechanism even though it seems like an attack mechanism; Any moment spent rushing towards something to create your happiness only serves to confirm your unhappiness; No one can be true to another human being w... Learn More
  64. The Sure Cure for a Sinking Spirit
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    Our spirit is not meant to sink. At any given moment, we can tell what we are living from by the way we see the world around us. We are not meant to live with a heavy heart, but at present we do not know what else to do. There is no denying the fact that, at times, life can weigh heavily upon our hearts and minds, but we can remain aware of the heaviness instead of consenting to live under it.

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  65. Saturdays with Guy (9/19/2009)
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    Informal discussion led by Guy Finley at Life of Learning Foundation on 9/19/09. Learn More
  66. Interview hosted by Maggie McCauley, the Effortless Organizing Coach
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    Interview with Maggie McCauley of "A New View" on 7/14/09. Topics explored in this dialogue: The inner determines the outer, Letting go has nothing to do with the release of anything outside of yourself, Discovering who and what you really are. Learn More
  67. Stop Looking in the Wrong Places
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    Looking to any person, place, possession, or power to answer our longing to be whole and free . . . is like searching the back of our bedroom closet in the hope of finding the entrance to King Solomon's mine. Learn More
  68. Blame Schmame
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    What's the difference between blaming someone else for the way you feel, and blaming yourself for something that you have done? There is no difference; they are both essentially the same. So what do blaming others and blaming yourself share in common? They are both an avoidance. We blame others for our negative states so that we don't have to do anything other than see the source of our suffe...

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  69. Higher Lessons In Reclaiming Your Life
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    Deriving your sense of self by identifying with the dilemma of another is like going to a tailor for a new suit and leaving the shop dressed in the clothes he was wearing when you walked in!... Learn More
  70. The Importance of Being Yourself
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    The parts of us that believe winning praise from others will release us from our painful hunger for that kind of approval belong to the same low level of self that first tempts us into eating what we know we shouldn't -- and that then calls us "Stupid!" for not knowing any better. Learn More
  71. Evict the Negative States that Make You Their Victim
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    No one finds freedom who believes their individual liberty depends on some consensus of how others view either their choices or character. Learn More
  72. Full and Final Freedom From Fear
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    In any moment of crisis, when we don't know who or what we should turn to, some form of fear is always happy to step in and to take the lead. Learn More
  73. Here are the Words Needed to Awaken: "Never Quit"
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    ey Lesson: Those who turn and run away, who quit when life asks of them more than they seem to have in that hour, prove real only their fears -- and this is their sorrow. But let us press on past our doubts to make this glad discovery: the reason we mustn't give in is because persistence alone proves that Life never gives up on us; what we hope for is nothing compared to the hope that Real Life Learn More
  74. This Secret Helps You Set Down Any Burden
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    No one wants to be touched by the hand of suffering, so millions spend billions trying to outrun its cold touch. And yet, these are the unwise for a very unseen reason: into every life must come some rain, for without it what else can a heart become other than a desert that never blooms?... Learn More
  75. Cut the Root of What's Wrecking Your Life
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    The unsure self that not only looks for, but attaches itself to codependent relationships -- cannot possibly be the real you. Let's see why this statement has to be true. The real you is that silent "I" within you whose awareness understands -- without having to think about it -- that you are on this earth (going through all of these events) to grow, to realize ever-higher stages of your self.

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  76. Coming to the End of Codependency
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    Whenever we consent to, or otherwise agree with anyone's dark assessment of his or her life, we are telling this person, "Yes, that is true (about you). No doubt life couldn't be any other way; after all . . . what else can you do?" In these sentiments is hidden a secret message that effectively says: "Sure . . . I understand the prison you are in and -- given your conditions -- it's only logi...

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  77. Be Yourself and Be Complete
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    When we find ourselves looking for something outside ourselves -- anything -- to complete us, to make us feel whole and happy, what is the nature of this force within us? What kind of power compels us to move heaven and earth to find a way to fulfill ourselves in this way? The answer is surprising! We are driven on by our sense of being incomplete. None of us would feel this compulsion to co...

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  78. Use This Pair of Spiritual Wings to Lift You Over the Rainbow

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    Real success is not measured by what we take from life, for whatever we win from the world is subject to the whim of its winds -- which means even the greatest of such victories is limited... but there is a success that cannot be spoiled by the passage of time. The true nature of success is found in a higher world that already exists deep within you. It is a real, tangible, higher order of co...

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  79. The Intimate Enemy: Winning the War Within Yourself

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    Learn the secrets of how to let go of what has been holding you down in life. Consider what you usually think of as being the cause of pain or dissatisfaction in your life. Maybe a betraying friend, shaky finances, a difficult workplace, or perhaps a past issue that still punishes you? And why it is that with all you've done to shake this suffering...

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  80. Breaking Dependency: Learning to Let Go and Be Free From the Inside Out

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    Learn what it takes to drop self-wrecking habits and addictions as you get to the root of substance abuse, codependence, overeating, depression, and anxiety.

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