Enlightening articles by Guy Finley on a wide range of topics address practical life issues and deepen your spiritual understanding.
Inspirational Quotes
Short but powerful quotes by Guy Finley will inspire you throughout your day.
Guy's Letters
Heartfelt inner-life questions from people around the world, and Guy’s enlightening answers, will shed light on your own issues.
Guy's Blog
Read Guy’s newest insights as he jots them down, spontaneous and uncensored.
This Week's Topic
Watch or listen to the specific talk we will all be discussing during this week’s Online Study Group meeting.
Short Talks
If you have a few minutes, and want a burst of enlightenment, watch or listen to these brief talks by Guy, filled with concentrated wisdom.
Interviews & Radio Shows
Hearing Guy interact with an interviewer is a delight. Listen as he makes deep spiritual principles easy to understand.
Student Reports
Be encouraged by hearing fellow members share their experiences and discoveries as they bring higher ideas into their daily lives.
Sacred Music
The Life of Learning singers and instrumentalists perform beautiful music that will inspire and uplift you.
Livestream Classes
Join us for exclusive live broadcasts of select Guy Finley talks.
Daily Meditation Emails
Start your day off right with a nugget of wisdom that can transform your experience with everything you do and everyone you meet.
Special Lessons
Inner-life exercises and special writings deepen your understanding.
Student Talks
Longtime local members speak for 10 to 15 minutes on a special topic. Hear the explorations and discoveries of others on the inner journey.
eCourses
Dive deep into a subject on your own! Work at your own pace with a series of talks by Guy on topics critical to your inner development.
Advanced Inner Life Talks
Catch Guy Finley’s weekly message that focuses on spiritual and personal breakthroughs. This is updated weekly and is available in video, audio and text.
Online Study Group
Join a lively online discussion with other members each week of “This Week’s Topic” – a new Guy Finley talk selected for in-depth study.
Study Group Recordings
You are not alone on the inner journey. Listen to lively, weekly online discussions between members.
Saturdays with Guy
Every Saturday Guy leads an open discussion. Local members share their discoveries, and Guy’s comments deepen everyone’s understanding.
Student Q&A with Guy
Guy regularly holds open Q&A sessions. Often members of our global community send in questions, or speak directly to Guy online.
Facebook Private Group
Access to all our private Facebook updates, student Facebook discussions, and our LIVE Saturday lunch roundtable discussions.
Discussion Forum
This member forum is where you can write in your observations and experiences, and receive feedback from fellow members. Read-only access for Free and Basic members. Full access for Premium & All Access members.
Articles
Enlightening articles by Guy Finley on a wide range of topics address practical life issues and deepen your spiritual understanding.
Inspirational Quotes
Short but powerful quotes by Guy Finley will inspire you throughout your day.
Guy's Letters
Heartfelt inner-life questions from people around the world, and Guy’s enlightening answers, will shed light on your own issues.
Guy's Blog
Read Guy’s newest insights as he jots them down, spontaneous and uncensored.
This Week's Topic
Watch or listen to the specific talk we will all be discussing during this week’s Online Study Group meeting.
Short Talks
If you have a few minutes, and want a burst of enlightenment, watch or listen to these brief talks by Guy, filled with concentrated wisdom.
Interviews & Radio Shows
Hearing Guy interact with an interviewer is a delight. Listen as he makes deep spiritual principles easy to understand.
Student Reports
Be encouraged by hearing fellow members share their experiences and discoveries as they bring higher ideas into their daily lives.
Sacred Music
The Life of Learning singers and instrumentalists perform beautiful music that will inspire and uplift you.
Livestream Classes
Join us for exclusive live broadcasts of select Guy Finley talks.
Daily Meditation Emails
Start your day off right with a nugget of wisdom that can transform your experience with everything you do and everyone you meet.
Special Lessons
Inner-life exercises and special writings deepen your understanding.
Student Talks
Longtime local members speak for 10 to 15 minutes on a special topic. Hear the explorations and discoveries of others on the inner journey.
eCourses
Dive deep into a subject on your own! Work at your own pace with a series of talks by Guy on topics critical to your inner development.
Advanced Inner Life Talks
Catch Guy Finley’s weekly message that focuses on spiritual and personal breakthroughs. This is updated weekly and is available in video, audio and text.
Online Study Group
Join a lively online discussion with other members each week of “This Week’s Topic” – a new Guy Finley talk selected for in-depth study.
Study Group Recordings
You are not alone on the inner journey. Listen to lively, weekly online discussions between members.
Saturdays with Guy
Every Saturday Guy leads an open discussion. Local members share their discoveries, and Guy’s comments deepen everyone’s understanding.
Student Q&A with Guy
Guy regularly holds open Q&A sessions. Often members of our global community send in questions, or speak directly to Guy online.
Facebook Private Group
Access to all our private Facebook updates, student Facebook discussions, and our LIVE Saturday lunch roundtable discussions.
Discussion Forum
This member forum is where you can write in your observations and experiences, and receive feedback from fellow members. Read-only access for Free and Basic members. Full access for Premium & All Access members.
Our eCourses focus on specific topics, building your understanding through a series of related talks. Most eCourses include MP3 audio and MP4 video formats you can play online.
Student Q&A with Guy on "Walk Away from the Pain of Yesterday" (12/7/22)
Posted: Thursday, December 8, 2022
Meeting: Wednesday, December 7, 2022
Duration: 16min 31sec
Topics Covered
If you still have an enemy of any kind, then up until now you have spent your life suffering uselessly.
No moment in time repeats itself. Creation is eternally new. Then the question to ask ourselves is: how do we find ourselves stuck in what seems to be the same painful situations over and over again?
Yesterday's pain does not exist today without the consciousness that carries it over.
Your moment-to-moment experience is inseparable from what your attention is connected to.
The more that you try to escape from a painful memory, the more you breath life into that memory and its attending pain.
Revisiting and reliving painful moments from the past is so much of a habit that it seems like a normal part of life.
The sure way to be free of yesterday's pain is to understand that it is not ours.
You can't separate a painful memory from the strong sense of self that appears with it.
Reliving the pain of the past never releases you from it. Consenting to relive the pain is what prevents the natural release.
Stop going there. When a painful memory appears, catch the temptation to participate in the old, familiar scene.
Die to the continuation of the strong sense of self that appears with the temptation to wrestle with the past.
Trying to escape painful past memories -- by imagining a utopian future where everything is as it should be -- only serves to solidify the level of consciousness that believes that escaping pain through imagination is the solution.
It is not the pain of the past that goes deeper, grows darker, becoming more intractable each time it's revisited. Rather, this pain is the negative effect of an unconscious nature that loves to immerse itself in its own conditioned memory of that unwanted moment...
... And where each time it revisits, and then resists this experience that it recollects on its own...here's what happens: its identification with that pain is strengthened, and the more it suffers for its role in what amounts to a self-induced creation.
Comments (0)
If you want to comment, you must have at least a Basic membership in our online Wisdom School.
Please Sign in or create an account now to join the discussion