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  1. How to Heal from Grief
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    How to Heal from Grief

    • Posted: 02/03/23
    • Meeting: 12/04/22
    • Time: 00:06:28
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    How to heal from grief after losing a loved one, and use our suffering for its intended purpose, is answered in this insightful video. When an aspirant asks Guy Finley how to heal from grief after losing his wife, Guy explains the difference between the natural pain of loss versus unconsciously revisiting the past which only ensures our continued suffering.

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  2. Get Over the Fear of Rejection
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    Get Over the Fear of Rejection

    • Posted: 10/03/22
    • Meeting: 11/07/21
    • Time: 00:02:29
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    In this answer to a viewer's question, "Secret of Letting Go" author Guy Finley explains that the fear of being rejected by another person is caused by a mind that is reliving an old painful memory, tricking you into believing that what happened in the past is the only possibility.

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  3. Erase Your Painful Past with This One Action
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    Erase Your Painful Past with This One Action

    • Posted: 08/26/18
    • Meeting: 08/26/18
    • Time: 00:05:44
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    Anytime we get a glimpse of the fact that we've made a mess of things in our lives, something in us quickly jumps in to cover it up and pretend that everything is fine. It is only when we no longer avoid seeing the fact of our situation and can finally admit "I don't like what I've made" that an atonement can take place.
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  4. Go Beyond Painful Limitation to Realize Fearless Being
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    How to End the Daily Painful Dramas in Your Life

    • Posted: 05/05/23
    • Meeting: 05/03/23
    • Time: 01:01:42
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    Classroom Talk: 5/3/2023 - There is no thought, no memory from the past that of itself can cause us pain; the only reason we suffer for their appearance is because we don't want to relive the unwanted experience they remind us of... not to mention how -- for our resistance to that same recollection -- we become its unwitting captive.

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  5. Go Beyond Painful Limitation to Realize Fearless Being
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    Walk Away from the Pain of Yesterday

    • Posted: 12/08/22
    • Meeting: 12/07/22
    • Time: 01:16:57
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    Classroom Talk: 12/7/2022 - It is impossible to teach the true nature of mindfulness, but it is possible to see the consequences of living from an unattended mind.

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  6. Go Beyond Painful Limitation to Realize Fearless Being
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    Transform the Pain of the Past into a Healing Power

    • Posted: 10/27/22
    • Meeting: 10/26/22
    • Time: 00:59:13
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    Classroom Talk: 10/26/2022 - Fear of the future is a negative memory: (it is) the ghost of some past painful experience disguised as "what may be."

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  7. Go Beyond Painful Limitation to Realize Fearless Being
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    Escape the Prison Called the "Pain of the Past"

    • Posted: 08/19/22
    • Meeting: 08/17/22
    • Time: 01:00:22
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    Classroom Talk: 8/17/2022 - Unconscious identification with any pain from the past -- especially as it involves, or otherwise lends support to some negative perception of oneself -- is a slow-acting poison that, once ingested, soon darkens the soul and leads to its destruction.

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  8. Go Beyond Painful Limitation to Realize Fearless Being
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    How to Leave the Pain of the Past Behind You

    • Posted: 02/25/22
    • Meeting: 02/23/22
    • Time: 01:00:10
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    Classroom Talk: 2/23/2022 - The past -- whatever its pain -- only exists in the present moment as a place of suffering due to an unconscious level of self that -- on its own -- first recalls that time and place of sorrow, and then resists the torment of its own conditioned memory.

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  9. Saturday Student Q&A with Guy Finley (10/12/2019)
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    Saturday Student Q&A with Guy Finley (10/12/2019)

    • Posted: 10/13/19
    • Meeting: 10/12/19
    • Time: 01:00:59
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    Topics Covered: Find the Place in This World That's Made Just for You; I feel like a complete failure and wonder if my life serves any purpose; I'm struggling to understand why my life feels so un-lived; What can I do to lessen the pain from a traumatic childhood; How do I deal with the loss of all close family, friends, and community; I feel like I am on a hamster wheel and cannot get off...

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  10. How to Cross Over the River of Dark, Painful Dreams
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    How to Cross Over the River of Dark, Painful Dreams

    • Posted: 05/22/19
    • Meeting: 05/19/19
    • Time: 01:03:02
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    Classroom Talk: 5/19/2019 - Being able to realize, and then release one's resistance to any unwanted moment does more than just help change the "dark tide" of that event; it reveals that within us already dwell the untroubled "waters" of a celestial harbor: the timeless shelter of an eternal Self that becomes the same as our own...

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  11. Saturday Student Q&A with Guy Finley (3/9/2019)
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    Saturday Student Q&A with Guy Finley (3/9/2019)

    • Posted: 03/14/19
    • Meeting: 03/09/19
    • Time: 00:52:40
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    Topics Covered: Relationship between mother and child; What did you have to do with your own birth?; We meet people from a limited understanding of ourselves; Whatever is buried in you is food for your development; Judgement is based on resistance to an instantaneous reaction of a pain we don't know what to do with; Deep and hidden pain carried over from childhood

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  12. Start Using Your Pain to Gain a Whole New Life
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    Start Using Your Pain to Gain a Whole New Life

    • Posted: 11/14/17
    • Meeting: 11/12/17
    • Time: 00:52:00
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    Featured Study Group Topic for the Week of November 20, 2017. No real consolation can come from our spiritual struggle unless we enter into it accompanied and strengthened by the following understanding: whatever self-sacrifice we're asked to make -- as the prerequisite to transcend whatever pains us -- serves a higher purpose than can be known by the parts of us that we're asked to give up fo...
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