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  • Throw Whatever Troubles You Out of Your Life
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    Throw Whatever Troubles You Out of Your Life

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    The first step in learning to toss out the troubles and problems in your life begins with acknowledging something you already know is true: your heart and mind are loaded down with a huge collection of dark and dusty old thoughts and feelings. This mental and emotional ""baggage"" -- carried over from the past -- is literally a kind of block ""wall"" that stands between you, and the unlimited...

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    Breaking Dependency: Learning to Let Go and Be Free From the Inside Out
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    Breaking Dependency: Learning to Let Go and Be Free From the Inside Out

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    Learn what it takes to drop self-wrecking habits and addictions as you get to the root of substance abuse, codependence, overeating, depression, and anxiety.

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  • Commentary on Bringing an End to Global Conflict: The First Step in Breaking Down Borders
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    Commentary on Bringing an End to Global Conflict: The First Step in Breaking Down Borders

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    The cost of peace is what we bear within us when we cease blaming others for the conflict we feel. --Guy Finley This is a special talk that Guy gave to a small group of students that was thought-provoking, liberating, and shocking, all at the same time. It provides deep insight into the real causes behind escalating global conflict, using the Israel-Gaza war as a model to reveal the unse...

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  • Relationship Magic: Waking Up Together
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    Relationship Magic: Waking Up Together

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    Nothing makes us ask tougher questions of ourselves than do our relationships with others, especially in those unsteady moments with someone we care for. Relationship Magic offers the knowledge and actions you need to build the kind of relationship very few men and women ever experience; one that is never stagnant, but always fresh, spontaneous, affectionate -- and above all, truly loving.

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  • 10 Ways to Tell the World You've Lost Interest in Being You
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    10 Ways to Tell the World You've Lost Interest in Being You

    • Posted: 2/22/03
    • 541 words
    • 693 Views
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    The true spiritual path begins and ends with what you already are. Use these 10 insights to tell the world you've lost interest in being you.

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  • An Inner Exercise to Change Your Life
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    An Inner Exercise to Change Your Life

    • Posted: 6/19/05
    • 1089 words
    • 238 Views
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    The will to be free belongs to that special part of us able to remember that we are here on earth to grow beyond the limiting influences of our own unawakened nature; it knows we are not created to participate with anything that causes us to suffer unconsciously. Our task is to awaken ourselves to this Higher Will within us that won't be compromised. How is this done? We must remember -- now a...

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  • How to Release Yourself from Yourself
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    How to Release Yourself from Yourself

    • Posted: 12/5/05
    • 1196 words
    • 252 Views
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    Question: Your teachings say that making demands and having expectations just sets us up for trouble. I know it's true. I always plan how other people should act and how things should turn out, but they never do what I expect, and then I become angry and disappointed. I sense that I am causing all my own pain. If I could just learn to want for myself what life wants for me maybe I wouldn't...

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  • Rise Above the Negativity of Others
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    Rise Above the Negativity of Others

    • Posted: 11/24/07
    • 461 words
    • 173 Views
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    In my job I must deal daily with several emotionally dark coworkers. What can I do to handle this situation better, besides getting another job? I know that it is difficult to be surrounded by toxic people; however, as difficult as this is to understand, your present work circumstance is perfect for your continuing development, if you understand how to use it. I say "how to use it" becaus...

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  • Making "Peace" with People who Would Punish Us
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    Making "Peace" with People who Would Punish Us

    • Posted: 6/30/08
    • 187 words
    • 168 Views
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    There are parts of us that would rather be punished by unkind people than have to spend one minute being alone, because the only way these same parts in us can exist is if they have someone to resent or somehow fear. In this case we remain in these ruinous relationships because the fear or emptiness we feel in even considering leaving them seems to be too much to bear on our own. Here's the k...

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  • Be Stronger Than Anything That Frightens You
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    Be Stronger Than Anything That Frightens You

    • Posted: 1/5/09
    • 752 words
    • 110 Views
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    The seemingly scary condition, whatever it may be, is not the problem. It is your reaction that is fearful. This is why if you will become conscious of your condition instead of afraid of it, you will change forever your relationship with fear. To be consciously afraid means that you know you are frightened, but at the same time you know that these very fears, as real as they may seem, a...

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  • Awaken to a New and Higher World Within Yourself
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    Awaken to a New and Higher World Within Yourself

    • Posted: 3/2/09
    • Time: 00:06:56
    • 123 Views
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    In our daily lives--within our small worlds from which we look out presently--we seem to come into contact with people who either cause us to suffer, or who do not show us the proper amount of respect. To put it bluntly, living in that small world of ours is not fun. In fact, it can be downright painful! Fortunately there does exists a world that is not just my small world, in which there is n...

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  • Stop Aching Over the Actions of Others!
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    Stop Aching Over the Actions of Others!

    • Posted: 3/30/09
    • 106 words
    • 162 Views
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    Suffering doesn't prove that someone else is wrong. What it does prove is you will go to any lengths, including self-destruction, to prove that you are right. ~~~ Instead of always asking yourself why doesn't so-and-so see how wrong they are, learn to ask Is what I'm feeling about that person right now good for me? Or them? ~~~ See the upset not as an exterior circumstance to be reme...

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  • Prescription for a Free and Happy Life
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    Prescription for a Free and Happy Life

    • Posted: 5/4/09
    • 431 words
    • 101 Views
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    The following five lessons are higher insights rarely discussed among the spiritually uninitiated because of the measurable effect that their strong medicine causes in the soul. But not only do these teachings help summarize the prescription for a free and happy life, they also present the case for why we need such a healing. Welcome these truths into your mind and watch how their refreshing v...

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  • The Secret Teaching of the Ages
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    The Secret Teaching of the Ages

    • Posted: 7/20/09
    • 578 words
    • 116 Views
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    It is impossible to change the relationship that you have with the world around you without changing the relationship that you have in yourself, with yourself. Before you can become the kind of human being who never again hurts another -- either in thought or deed -- you must change the relationship you have with yourself. This is the secret teaching of the ages. Inside of it, we learn about...

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  • Break the Chains of Bitterness
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    Break the Chains of Bitterness

    • Posted: 12/28/09
    • Time: 00:05:02
    • 135 Views
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    You have within you something that is quite capable of knowing what is good for you and what is not. And although presently it is necessary that you learn new knowledge and find a true source of guidance, ultimately you do not need books or teachers to know from yourself what is true about you. There is something that lives within you that will never harm itself or another human being. When y...

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  • How to Stop the Spiritually Sick from Infecting You
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    How to Stop the Spiritually Sick from Infecting You

    • Posted: 6/4/10
    • 707 words
    • 161 Views
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    Those with whom we assemble we will soon resemble, so the simple old saying goes. Yet it tells of a deep truth. It says that who we are -- the stuff of our soul at present -- is being transformed continuously by the nature of the company we keep; so that, in our essence we are always moving and evolving towards a kind of psychic oneness with whatever relationships we have revolving around us t...

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  • Stop Nursing Negative States
    Special Lesson

    Stop Nursing Negative States

    • Posted: 8/6/10
    • 581 words
    • 104 Views
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    Every time we accept a negative state we compromise ourselves and increase the level of conflict for ourselves and everyone we meet.

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  • Shatter These False Beliefs and Be Free
    Radio Show

    Shatter These False Beliefs and Be Free

    • Posted: 3/25/11
    • Meeting: 1/18/11
    • Time: 00:56:00
    • 78 Views
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    Guy Finley's monthly call-in radio show, Guy Finley LIVE! Topics explored in this dialogue: Thinking life is supposed to be easy is a false belief - life is supposed to be meaningful; Conflict never goes away when you think it must be answered by you; Punishing yourself doesn't prove you're really loving, it proves you're asleep.
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  • Reach for and Realize the Excellent Life (Interview #1)
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    Reach for and Realize the Excellent Life (Interview #1)

    • Posted: 5/23/11
    • Meeting: 5/17/11
    • Time: 00:56:00
    • 174 Views
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    Guy Finley's monthly call-in radio show, Guy Finley LIVE! Topics explored in this dialogue: What does it mean to reach for excellence in moments of disturbance and when I least feel like it; Excellence is a state of being, from which all things manifested come; We have a primal, archetypal urge to explore ourselves; Instead of trying to attain excellence we must live it; Our pain isn't caused...
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  • Uncommon Insights from Everyday Interactions
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    Uncommon Insights from Everyday Interactions

    • Posted: 8/1/11
    • 425 words
    • 109 Views
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    It is never the people we are around that cause us negative reactions. These reactions arise out of what we secretly want from people.

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  • Saturday Student Q&A with Guy Finley (4/13/2013)
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    Saturday Student Q&A with Guy Finley (4/13/2013)

    • Posted: 4/17/13
    • Meeting: 4/13/13
    • Time: 00:55:00
    • 140 Views
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    Topics covered: I'm in a relationship where I'm selling myself, but I don't want to be alone; Why were we given bodies as an instrument for connecting to higher consciousness; The Truth feels like a reprimand; I am finding that everyone needs to find truth for themselves; What must I do to escape the monotony of patterns in my life; Is coming awake to the effects of nature's patterns on me act...
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  • See The Blindness of Ever Feeling Superior Toward Another
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    See The Blindness of Ever Feeling Superior Toward Another

    • Posted: 10/11/13
    • Time: 00:02:36
    • 94 Views
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    Guy Finley explains that if we ever find ourselves feeling superior to another person, then that is the perfect time to take an honest look at ourselves so that we can begin to sense what it truly feels like to judge others.

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  • Saturdays with Guy (10/12/2013)
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    Saturdays with Guy (10/12/2013)

    • Posted: 10/15/13
    • Meeting: 10/12/13
    • Time: 00:43:00
    • 129 Views
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    Topics covered: The world is not responsible for your pain, it reveals the pain that's already in you; Judgment of others always follows the rejection of seeing yourself; Real action doesn't leave a footprint; Being rightly active towards a negative reaction means not becoming a passive vessel for it; The more awake you become the less you want to change because you see you can't change yourse...
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  • There's No Sense of Self in a Right Action
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    There's No Sense of Self in a Right Action

    • Posted: 9/1/14
    • Time: 00:02:58
    • 87 Views
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    Guy Finley explains that true goodness is not measured by actions that validate the image we have of ourselves as being a good. An action that is truly good has no self-reference, and is the natural outcome of being present.

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  • Love Cannot Grow Where Resistance Rules
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    Love Cannot Grow Where Resistance Rules

    • Posted: 12/22/14
    • 592 words
    • 153 Views
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    The first step in harmonious relationships is simple: We need only realize the spiritual truth that we cannot meet someone whom we are not like in some way.

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  • Uncover the Masquerading Truth
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    Uncover the Masquerading Truth

    • Posted: 1/12/15
    • 322 words
    • 85 Views
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    As we work and root out what is untrue, it becomes easier and easier to instantly taste the truth of anything (or anyone) we encounter.

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  • Journey to the Self Beyond Comparison
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    Journey to the Self Beyond Comparison

    • Posted: 6/22/15
    • Time: 00:01:50
    • 106 Views
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    In this short talk, Guy Finley talks about how all true teachings exist to help us reveal and transcend the present state of darkness that we live in, not to punish us for it.

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  • Dealing with the Darkness We Get from Others
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    Dealing with the Darkness We Get from Others

    • Posted: 5/2/16
    • 494 words
    • 136 Views
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    Any condition we meet that is unwanted, such as a rude person, is not the cause of our stress. All conditions simply offer a momentary mirror for us in which it is possible to begin seeing what we have brought with us, within ourselves, into that moment.

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  • Realize and Release What Disturbs You
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    Realize and Release What Disturbs You

    • Posted: 9/19/16
    • 341 words
    • 132 Views
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    We grow through our relationships with life, which means that through them we are shown possibilities about ourselves we never knew existed.

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  • Break Out of the Cycle of Hurting and Being Hurt
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    Break Out of the Cycle of Hurting and Being Hurt

    • Posted: 10/10/16
    • 690 words
    • 120 Views
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    To hold a wish to punish someone begins with the unconscious embrace of the very pain we wish to inflict.

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  • Saturdays with Guy (4/8/2017)
    Saturdays with Guy

    Saturdays with Guy (4/8/2017)

    • Posted: 4/9/17
    • Meeting: 4/8/17
    • Time: 00:49:00
    • 64 Views
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    Topics covered: Your hope lies in seeing that you have no hope; The instinctual part of you does not communicate through thought; When personality no longer has the energy required to suppress itself, it runs amok; You can never help anyone you're afraid of; Unnaturalness always creates unnaturalness; If people understood Christ's teachings there would be no Christianity; The true meaning of l...
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  • Misery Loves Company
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    Misery Loves Company (Student Talks)

    • Posted: 5/20/17
    • Meeting: 5/19/17
    • Time: 01:01:00
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    Being able to let go of any negative state takes place naturally as you see that the only thing binding you to it, and its misery, is your own attention.
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  • If You Want Liberation, Throw Away the Labels You Have for Everything
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    If You Want Liberation, Throw Away the Labels You Have for Everything

    • Posted: 5/29/17
    • Time: 00:03:39
    • 101 Views
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    When we apply a label such as "passive aggressive" to someone who bothers us, we cease to have direct contact with that person and instead meet them only through that idea, which prevents any kind of learning. We must work instead to allow the revelation of the nature that has been disturbed within us so we can see the fear that hides beneath it.

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  • Saturday Student Q&A with Guy Finley (8/4/2018)
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    Saturday Student Q&A with Guy Finley (8/4/2018)

    • Posted: 8/6/18
    • Meeting: 8/4/18
    • Time: 01:00:00
    • 59 Views
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    Topics covered: The Law of Order; We're conditioned to believe we can control the outcome of any moment; Control of life is an absolute illusion; Thinking is a form of complaint; Changing the manifestation of a consciousness that's out of order; What does it mean to say "I exist"; The relationship of "I am" is unity; Freedom is unimaginable; Everything is a reflection; Silence permits seeing;...

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  • Conscious Talk Radio with Rob Spears (8/3/2018)
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    Conscious Talk Radio with Rob Spears (8/3/2018)

    • Posted: 9/7/18
    • Meeting: 8/3/18
    • Time: 00:36:00
    • 160 Views
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    Topics covered: Discussion of Guy's new book on Relationship Magic; The most abundant resource on this earth is relationships; Every moment in life is for our greater development; When we push to change our partner, our partner pushes back; Seeing our complicity in conflict instantly changes the relationship; The real magic is the action of Love; Relationships are microcosms of a broader set o...

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  • Quantum Success with Christy Whitman (10/10/2018)
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    Quantum Success with Christy Whitman (10/10/2018)

    • Posted: 10/12/18
    • Meeting: 10/10/18
    • Time: 00:25:00
    • 130 Views
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    Topics covered: Why did you write the Relationship Magic book; Every limitation we need to transcend in ourselves is done through our relationships; Our relationships allow us to grow in a love that is unconditional; Being a parent requires self-development; As goes my attention, so comes my experience; Revealing allows a healing; Learning to let love come first; Shattering the patterns produc...

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  • Destination Unlimited with Victor Fuhrman (10/10/2018)
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    Destination Unlimited with Victor Fuhrman (10/10/2018)

    • Posted: 10/16/18
    • Meeting: 10/10/18
    • Time: 00:47:00
    • 164 Views
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    Topics covered: Discussion of Guy's new book on Relationship Magic; Responding to a calling; What are the biggest problems in today's relationships; Is digital technology negatively impacting relationships; What is the ""magic"" aspect of the book title; What can we learn by seeing ourselves through the eyes of another; It's pain that picks the fight; How much does early trauma affect relationsh...

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  • How Do I Know What’s Good for Me?
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    How Do I Know What’s Good for Me?

    • Posted: 2/8/19
    • Meeting: 11/11/18
    • Time: 00:04:08
    • 449 Views
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    In a world where everything's upside-down, where what seems to be "good" really isn't, you must learn to discern what's true from what's false. The more you try to keep everything in place, the more it falls apart, and you ending up running right past your own life.
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The Essential Laws of Fearless Living

Here is your step-by-step guide to building the foundation of a fearless life. Learn how to see through the illusion of limitation and become unstoppable.

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