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Enlightening articles by Guy Finley on a wide range of topics address practical life issues and deepen your spiritual understanding.
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Enlightening articles by Guy Finley on a wide range of topics address practical life issues and deepen your spiritual understanding.
Short but powerful quotes by Guy Finley will inspire you throughout your day.
Heartfelt inner-life questions from people around the world, and Guy’s enlightening answers, will shed light on your own issues.
Read Guy’s newest insights as he jots them down, spontaneous and uncensored.
Watch or listen to the specific talk we will all be discussing during this week’s Online Study Group meeting.
If you have a few minutes, and want a burst of enlightenment, watch or listen to these brief talks by Guy, filled with concentrated wisdom.
Hearing Guy interact with an interviewer is a delight. Listen as he makes deep spiritual principles easy to understand.
Be encouraged by hearing fellow members share their experiences and discoveries as they bring higher ideas into their daily lives.
The Life of Learning singers and instrumentalists perform beautiful music that will inspire and uplift you.
Join us for exclusive live broadcasts of select Guy Finley talks.
Start your day off right with a nugget of wisdom that can transform your experience with everything you do and everyone you meet.
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Dive deep into a subject on your own! Work at your own pace with a series of talks by Guy on topics critical to your inner development.
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Shop eCoursesNot long ago I lost my wife of many years to cancer. I am certain that was the beginning of my spiritual awakening. I read in a book of Jewish wisdom a phrase written by a rabbi who said: When you lose a parent you lose the "past." When you lose a spouse you lose the "present." When you lose a child you lose the "future." Where in the realm of the power of "now" does that place the loss of my wife? Is it now "past"? Is being spiritually in the now different from the "present"?
I am remembering (now) when my own mother passed on; it was hard to watch her die, which she did... before my eyes. When she "left" I recall a strange sinking feeling go through me... a little like a cold wind that sneaks through the crack in a door, catching you unaware. At that moment, I didn't know what it was; but, soon afterwards it became clear. Her death had left a hollow in me of some sort -- actually, a dark hollow -- because (at the time) I couldn't see into it. Not long afterwards, I realized something I would share with you now.
This "hollow" feeling wasn't created by her death; her death revealed it.
Loving those we do in their time fills a certain vital "space" in us that, for the longest time, can't be filled in any other way. And I strongly suspect that when someone we love dies, it's to serve a greater purpose than our initial grief permits us to see.
The death of a loved one reawakens in us an awareness of this "place" (in our heart) that had been filled with our love for them, so that -- for the absence of this person -- we are re-introduced to this "hole" in our heart. This makes a time of loss the proverbial "rock and hard place," spiritually speaking. For though we may wish it otherwise, we know that this (painful) sense of emptiness can no longer be filled with "what was." Real Love is presence, not past. Which brings us to the point:
God never creates a space in us (a need) for which He hasn't created what is meant to fill it; and if we are willing to see this, in spite of our sorrow, then here we meet our native need for another order of love that cannot die. And our need -- this longing -- is God's pleasure to fulfill as long as we don't try to fill it ourselves (through prolonged grief, drugs, distractions, anger, what have you). So, as strange as it may seem at first, we are actually "introduced" to the possibility of this new order of love by the very loss we have suffered. In this way, we come to realize what I think is the Miraculous:
Even though the one we loved is no longer with us, we haven't really lost the love we shared... rather, we have gained -- been awakened to -- another kind of love that holds everyone in it for all time.
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