Part 1
There can be no "life after death" without realizing an order of Love that has no fear of dying. This Timeless Witness to its (own) creation doesn't see death as the end of life, but rather as its invisible partner in a ceaseless act of love.
Part 2
When you realize that no one on this earth can be like you -- that no other soul can know the beauty, the sorrow, the light, and the darkness you alone are given to see -- then you will no longer want to be like anyone else on this earth. You will at last be the fearless individual that your heart of hearts has called you to be.