Go Ahead and Let Go of Yourself
Go Ahead and Let Go of Yourself
  • Posted: September 14, 2015
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Key Lesson

The onset of any negative state is the preliminary painful effect of having some flattering, but false image of yourself exposed for being the fake that it is.

Summary

Any human being who has to hold himself together is someone who is ready to fall apart. Trying to hold yourself together is a terrible way to go through life. Our task is to prove this to ourselves. The fears of falling apart can never be quieted by adding more pieces to your self, such as success or the hopes of success. With this approach to life, you wear out faster, because you now have even more conditions you believe you must control in order to keep your life together.

Whenever we picture ourselves, there is one image that rarely, if ever, enters into our mental movie: that of being someone who is ready to fall apart. But few of us see ourselves in any self-compromising light at all. We feel safe within the dimly lit theater of our own circle-of-self pictures, and we return to it often -- especially when the harsh light of reality starts to break through and show us that we may not be as together as we'd like to think. This is why we need the truth in our lives. The truth is what allows us to see reality without being frightened about what we see. Part of the truth's rescuing action is to reveal to us that we are not apart from what we see. From this unique, inner vantage point, the light of reality isn't harsh -- it's Home. The more of this light we can welcome into our circle-of-self and its cast of 1,001 self-images, the easier it becomes to let go. Why? Because we aren't losing anything except for what has been keeping us in the darkness.

You are not who you think you are. No matter how attractive or repulsive, you are not any picture you may be holding of yourself. The real solution is to go ahead and let yourself fall apart: You are not what will fall apart. Who you are can never fall apart. What will collapse is the haunted house of self-flattering and security-seeking pictures you had mistakenly identified as a solution to your shaky life. These pictures are not the solution to your shakiness, they are the source of it.

Excerpted From: The Secret of Letting Go, pages 21-24

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