Learn to turn the things that you don't want to do in life into deliberate conscious actions, and it won't be too long before you'll want to do the things that you've always tried to avoid.
Learning to see -- and then to deliberately take a step back from the unconscious part we play when we're identified with some mechanical reaction -- is the first step in learning how to play a conscious role in life... one that cannot compromise either the one acting, or those with whom he or she interacts.
It often feels as if difficult moments in our life are things that we just have to "go through," but this is only half the story... and the lesser half, at that. In truth, each life event represents a very special set of conditions for which we alone have been created and then... are invited to grow through.
The one who learns to look within, to seek therein the Kingdom of Heaven, no longer feels the need to look outward... So that the whole idea of looking forward to some "better, happier tomorrow" simply ceases to exist for him or her. This means he is no longer bound by whimsical winds of passing time; thus free... he no longer lives with worry or fear.
What I am -- whatever its nature in an unwanted moment -- is one and the same as that moment I don't want.
In any given moment we must give all that we have to whatever we may be doing, for only complete action on our part has the power to teach us completely those lessons that life would have us learn.
Part 1
If you can't give the whole of your attention to someone -- or anything, for that matter -- then you can't listen. If you can't listen, you can't possibly hear the whole story. And if you can't hear the whole story, then it's impossible to understand your role in its telling.
Part 2
There are no lazy hearts or minds in heaven.
"It's impossible to arrive at wholeness by seeking it one "peace" at a time.
The more you imagine a problem, the more real it becomes.