Guy’s interviews, talks, and an ebook reveal what relationships are really all about, where they go wrong, and how to make the inner changes that maximize the good of all our relationships.
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• When it comes to love, our partner is a mirror that shows us the most positive, empowering, beautiful things the human heart can hold. Love makes that possible.• But it is also a fact that love makes it possible for that same human being, and their same idiosyncrasies, to show us what is concealed in us that limits our love.• Until we begin to realize why it is that someone we love can be so incredibly exasperating, we'll blame them for the pain instead of understanding why that moment has appeared the way it has in our relationship.• Until we see what has been revealed in us by our partner, and accept the revelation as an invitation to let go of those parts of ourselves, we will continue to have fights, blaming, resenting, without ever realizing we are caught in a loop.• What love has always intended for us to do and be with each other is to work as polishing stones so that what comes out of the moment is shinier, truer, better, a purer reflection of what love intends for us and why it brought us together.
• If I’m with someone and I feel pain or anxiety, they didn’t cause that; they merely revealed I entered that relationship with a seed of anxiety already in me. They helped me see what I’m clinging to that will interfere with growing our love.• If we help each other see what limits our love, and agree to be responsible for these limiting, unconscious parts of ourselves, we can have a real relationship predicated on growing in love instead of blaming each other for our pain.• When it comes to love and relationships we are all and aways will be in training. Life is not a race to win with relationships. It’s a school for our higher education.• Letting go in the relationship is willingness to see the limitations in ourselves that keep us from growing into something broader and more beautiful.• We’re each a kind of a secret agent in the life of the other, here to help each other see where we stand in the way of releasing in ourselves what limits our love.
• How to love your partner without limits.• How to release negative reactions before they wreck everything.• How to turn heated exchanges into healing turning points.• How to end painful patterns by starting fresh in the middle of an old argument.• How to give your partner the room they need to grow to become a better lover.
• Love requires us to begin acting from love every moment … not just when it’s convenient. Real love always has a cost.• Everything that comes in and out of your life is an opportunity for you to see in yourself what is love and what you can do to be further integrated with it.• How do I make this love real that I know exists? How does it become something that isn’t a fantasy? How do I live moment to moment with love?• What does it take to get this crusty old hardened heart open enough to begin to know love as the fulfillment of the purpose of my life.• When you understand the nature of love, what you now call love will no longer interest you in the same way because you will have seen something higher than what you took to be love.
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Interview 1: Relationship Alive! with Neil Sattin
Interview 2: Healthy Relationships with Ande Anderson
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