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  1. Making "Peace" with People who Would Punish Us
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    Making "Peace" with People who Would Punish Us

    • Posted: 06/30/08
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    There are parts of us that would rather be punished by unkind people than have to spend one minute being alone, because the only way these same parts in us can exist is if they have someone to resent or somehow fear. In this case we remain in these ruinous relationships because the fear or emptiness we feel in even considering leaving them seems to be too much to bear on our own. Here's the k...

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  2. Abuse
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    • Posted: 12/31/06
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    My husband drinks too much. The problem I have with that (aside from it being deadly to his health) is his mean-spirited attitude toward me after he drinks. He says negative things about me that he would not normally say while sober. The crazy thing about it is, the next day he is repentant, telling me how much he loves me and how he would be nothing without me. How do I elevate myself above c...

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  3. An Inner Exercise to Change Your Life
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    An Inner Exercise to Change Your Life

    • Posted: 06/19/05
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    The will to be free belongs to that special part of us able to remember that we are here on earth to grow beyond the limiting influences of our own unawakened nature; it knows we are not created to participate with anything that causes us to suffer unconsciously. Our task is to awaken ourselves to this Higher Will within us that won't be compromised. How is this done? We must remember -- now a...

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  4. 10 Ways to Tell the World You've Lost Interest in Being You
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    10 Ways to Tell the World You've Lost Interest in Being You

    • Posted: 02/22/03
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    The true spiritual path begins and ends with what you already are. Use these 10 insights to tell the world you've lost interest in being you.

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  5. Let Go and Flow with Real Life (Interview #1)
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    Let Go and Flow with Real Life (Interview #1)

    • Posted: 04/29/11
    • Meeting: 03/15/11
    • Time: 00:56:00
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    Guy Finley's monthly call-in radio show, Guy Finley LIVE! Topics covered: We must learn to use our actual lives, moment to moment, to work on ourselves and our freedom; All disturbances are meant to reveal where we are out of life's flow; You cannot and must not protect yourself from unwanted moments; There is no such thing as an unproductive moment; Events that take place in passing time are...
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  6. Interview hosted by Michelle Skaletski-Boyd
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    Interview hosted by Michelle Skaletski-Boyd

    • Posted: 06/05/10
    • Meeting: 04/06/10
    • Time: 00:58:00
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    Topics explored in this dialogue: There is no end to "waking up" in this life; It isn't possible for a conscious human being to compromise themselves; Fear is an aspect of a divided mind; A pivotal point in a person's spiritual life is when they cast aside the foolish notion that a negative state can do anything for them...
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  7. Let the Fear of Being No One Fade Away
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    Let the Fear of Being No One Fade Away

    • Posted: 12/25/09
    • Meeting: 12/15/09
    • Time: 00:56:00
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    Guy Finley's monthly call-in radio show "Guy Finley LIVE!" broadcast on HealthyLife.net on 12/15/09. Guy Finley discusses the topic of how to "Let the Fear of Being No One Fade Away." Topics explored in this show: What a person really wants is to know that they exist; How does one stay with a fear and let it resolve itself; The only reason you stay in any argument is because you fear losing so...
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  8. Saturday Student Q&A with Guy Finley (3/14/2020)
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    Saturday Student Q&A with Guy Finley (3/14/2020)

    • Posted: 03/16/20
    • Meeting: 03/14/20
    • Time: 01:05:27
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    Topics Covered: Suppose when we become Truthful, less people agree with us and desert us, particularly family. What will I do in this case?; Freedom from the resistance and anger that comes up to "handle" my spouse's non-stop patronizing in her attempt to fix everything about me; "Who" is it who feels hurt?; What happens immediately after we die?...

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  9. Saturday Student Q&A with Guy Finley (2/9/2019)
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    Saturday Student Q&A with Guy Finley (2/9/2019)

    • Posted: 02/14/19
    • Meeting: 02/09/19
    • Time: 01:04:57
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    Topics Covered: What is the difference between little "I's" and the whole of the divine; I've battled with anxiety and Obsessive Compulsive Disorder since my late teens and don't know how to practice the higher ideas I learn; How do I help a young student in my classroom who is rude and hateful; Is conscience a conduit of truth.

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  10. Start Using the Shake-Up to Wake-Up!
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    Start Using the Shake-Up to Wake-Up! (Student Talks)

    • Posted: 07/11/16
    • Meeting: 07/08/16
    • Time: 01:02:00
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    Contrary to popular opinion -- as concerns being around someone who has just set us off: the real task before us is not to try to change him or her, or take control of the unwanted moment. Rather (it is) to use the awareness of our own negative reaction to help us realize we need to change the kind of person we are.
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  11. Stop Being Punished by This False Belief
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    Stop Being Punished by This False Belief (Student Talks)

    • Posted: 11/30/15
    • Meeting: 11/27/15
    • Time: 01:04:00
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    We are not the "victim" of any circumstantial experience; rather we are the victim of a mistaken belief that our experience of an unwanted moment is somehow separate from the part of us responsible for that same perception.
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  12. Saturday Student Q&A with Guy Finley (5/9/2015)
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    Saturday Student Q&A with Guy Finley (5/9/2015)

    • Posted: 05/12/15
    • Meeting: 05/09/15
    • Time: 01:05:00
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    Topics covered: Working with the double attention exercises; How do you come to understand and live from the immortal self; Tools for introducing others to spirituality; Walking away from abusive family relationships; Comments on the Easter talk regarding light and dark; How can I live a simpler life; Understanding what it means to 'fall into a pit'; How can I help my young grandchildren while...
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The Essential Laws of Fearless Living

Here is your step-by-step guide to building the foundation of a fearless life. Learn how to see through the illusion of limitation and become unstoppable.

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