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  1. Drop the Unseen Dependency that's Dragging You Down in Life
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    Drop the Unseen Dependency that's Dragging You Down in Life

    • Posted: 06/30/17
    • Time: 00:12:30
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    Guy Finley explains why fear is a form of spiritual sickness, and what one must do to return to spiritual health.

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  2. Use the End of A Bad Relationship to Change Your Life
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    Use the End of A Bad Relationship to Change Your Life

    • Posted: 02/09/17
    • Time: 00:07:27
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    Guy Finley reveals that the "self" that grieves over an unwanted event is the same level of self that dragged you into the situation in the first place. We have the capacity to use the shock of that realization to wake up and let go of the pain.

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  3. Refuse Abuse, Within and Without
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    Refuse Abuse, Within and Without

    • Posted: 03/02/16
    • Time: 00:12:50
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    Guy Finley explains that anyone who remains in an abusive relationship of any kind does so only because of his or her own weakness and unconscious agreement. As we work to separate ourselves inwardly from the false belief that we cannot live without the acknowledgement of others, we will come to know true inner freedom no matter what our exterior conditions may be.

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  4. Don't "Dance" with Painful Thoughts and Feelings
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    Don't "Dance" with Painful Thoughts and Feelings

    • Posted: 03/22/13
    • Time: 00:12:49
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    In this video, Guy tells an enlightening and entertaining spiritual story about a young woman who gets carried away with "dance partners" -- thoughts and feelings -- that don't have her best interests at heart. After being "mugged" by these "partners" numerous times, she finally realizes what she must do to find freedom...

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  5. Let Go and Learn the Truth of Yourself
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    Let Go and Learn the Truth of Yourself

    • Posted: 08/27/11
    • Time: 00:05:53
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    In this short talk, Guy Finley talks about why human beings are so addicted to stress and tension, and why it is so important for us to understand that something within us actually enjoys being anxious.

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  6. The Sure Cure for a Sinking Spirit
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    The Sure Cure for a Sinking Spirit

    • Posted: 11/17/09
    • Time: 00:05:36
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    Our spirit is not meant to sink. At any given moment, we can tell what we are living from by the way we see the world around us. We are not meant to live with a heavy heart, but at present we do not know what else to do. There is no denying the fact that, at times, life can weigh heavily upon our hearts and minds, but we can remain aware of the heaviness instead of consenting to live under it.

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  7. Blame Schmame
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    Blame Schmame

    • Posted: 04/25/09
    • Time: 00:06:29
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    What's the difference between blaming someone else for the way you feel, and blaming yourself for something that you have done? There is no difference; they are both essentially the same. So what do blaming others and blaming yourself share in common? They are both an avoidance. We blame others for our negative states so that we don't have to do anything other than see the source of our suffe...

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  8. The Inner Frontier with Darlene Green
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    The Inner Frontier with Darlene Green

    • Posted: 05/13/16
    • Meeting: 04/28/16
    • Time: 00:45:00
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    Topics covered: Discussion of Guy's new 'Relationship Magic' course; How unwanted moments serve to change our consciousness; Relationships are intended to be a ceaseless stirring; The reason why relationships end up in a mess; Understanding the purpose of pain; Why we are drawn to certain people; The illusion that we are different from one another; The real purpose of relationships; Discoverin...
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  9. Student Q&A with Guy on "Escape the Unseen Prison of Painful Dependency" (11/15/23)
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    Student Q&A with Guy on "Escape the Unseen Prison of Painful Dependency" (11/15/23)

    • Posted: 11/16/23
    • Meeting: 11/15/23
    • Time: 00:21:14
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    Topics covered: How long do you want to live a life in which you can be carried off at any time, beaten up, and then released whenever your captor is done with you?; The beginning of the end of useless suffering is in seeing that, at present, you do not really know why you suffer. There is not one solution that you think you know that is going to save you; If you ever want to stop being thrown into a prison whenever conditions seem to conspire against you...

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  10. Student Q&A with Guy on "Go Beyond Painful Limitation to Realize Fearless Being" (6/30/21)
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    Student Q&A with Guy on "Out with the 'Old Addictive Self' and in with a New Dedication to be Free" (1/4/23)

    • Posted: 01/06/23
    • Meeting: 01/04/23
    • Time: 00:20:00
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    Topics covered: True exploration of your consciousness cannot be for the purpose of escaping from something, nor to confirm what you already know; The defintion of "insanity" is doing the same thing over and over again, and hoping for a different result. The same could be said about "addiction"; "Addiction" connotes the idea of unwilling service to something that is harmful.

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  11. Student Q&A with Guy on "Breaking Dependency: Freedom from the 'Compulsive Self'" (5/23/21)
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    Student Q&A with Guy on "Breaking Dependency: Freedom from the 'Compulsive Self'" (5/23/21)

    • Posted: 05/24/21
    • Meeting: 05/23/21
    • Time: 00:37:39
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    Topics Covered: There is no such thing as a compulsive pleasure; We are not meant to spend our lives compulsively defending and justifying ourselves. Those things are addictions; Physical hunger and thirst are natural, but being hungry for approval is not natural; Every day we go compulsively looking for what our mind says we need in order to find fulfillment. What we long for...

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  12. Student Talks on "Discover the Unseen Root of Addiction, Dependency and Other Self-Destructive Choices" (8/14/20)
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    Student Talks on "Discover the Unseen Root of Addiction, Dependency and Other Self-Destructive Choices" (8/14/20)

    • Posted: 08/23/20
    • Meeting: 08/14/20
    • Time: 00:32:19
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    Student Talks: 8/14/2020 - Key Lesson: Part 1: We can imagine almost anything save this one unimaginable exception: the dark walls that seem to close in on us in the midst of some unwanted moment are, in fact, nothing more than (parts of) a dark dream born of a mind so asleep to itself... it can't see it has unconsciously...

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The Essential Laws of Fearless Living

Here is your step-by-step guide to building the foundation of a fearless life. Learn how to see through the illusion of limitation and become unstoppable.

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