Only by daring to see the truth of ourselves in challenging moments will we ever see, and then be set free by the revelations that await us there. For instance, the “weight” of any relationship that seems to overpower us is inseparable from our resistance to what it brings up in us. This means the only power any “bully” holds over us is inseparable from the fear of some negative consequence that we first imagined into existence... and then submit ourselves to the suffering inherent in trying to escape a dark dream of our own making!