In those times when we're busy dreaming up the next plan, the next love, the next thrill, aren't we really looking for a way to renew ourselves? Most of us experience "renewal" when some idea or a hope that we have gets fulfilled, filling us in turn with a sense of excitement; and then, in that feeling of being full of ourselves, comes a certain kind of pleasure that we take as being the same...

When we are hurt badly, the higher lesson hidden in this trial is to recognize the time has come to let go of who and what we have been up until the moment of loss.

Topics covered: Discussion of Guy's new book on Relationship Magic; We blame because we don't understand it is our pain not theirs; Relationships are the most important resource we have; Relationships are the messengers of love and healing; Past painful events are never healed until revealed; The moment is the teacher; Love never hates, attacks, or blames; We look for relationships as replacem...

Topics covered: Discussion of Guy's new book on Relationship Magic; Our relationships as they are now are very tenuous; Real love never disappears or separates; This book is a flashlight to show us what is within us; Our pain becomes aware to us in our relationships; It isn't the other person who needs to change, it is I who needs to change; We are in each others lives to be perfected; Why is...

Topics covered: Discussion of Guy's new book on Relationship Magic (click to learn more); The most abundant and valuable resource on the planet is our relationships; Love does not harm another human being; It is pain that picks any fight; We have an addiction to a false sense of self; No one else is responsible for my feelings; Our partners are in our lives to help perfect us, not to punish us...