There are things that are true about the spiritual life that the mental man or woman will never know. Human beings are presently bullied around, pushed from pillar to post without even knowing what is happening to them. There is a corrupted state that exists in the consciousness of humanity in which there is an acceptance of interior conflict.
When you begin at long last to awaken to your actual interior condition, that awakening includes a certain kind of intolerance, in which you will finally refuse to be taken over by negative states such as anger, anxiety, and fear. At this stage of interior development, you will make the conscious decision to no longer agree to be identified in any way with what negative states tell you is true about you. This is the true release and ultimate victory over tormenting thoughts and feelings.