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  1. Abuse
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    Abuse

    • Posted: 12/31/06
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    My husband drinks too much. The problem I have with that (aside from it being deadly to his health) is his mean-spirited attitude toward me after he drinks. He says negative things about me that he would not normally say while sober. The crazy thing about it is, the next day he is repentant, telling me how much he loves me and how he would be nothing without me. How do I elevate myself above c...

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  2. Blame Game
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    Blame Game

    • Posted: 02/23/03
    • 521 words
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    What's wrong with knowing that someone or something outside of me is responsible for making me feel unhappy? Over and over I fall into the trap of wanting to lash out and blame other people for what seem to me to be injustices in their actions. How can I learn to suppress that immediate reaction to point the finger at someone else? After certain negative events take place, I think I'll regain...

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  3. Saturdays with Guy (1/20/2018)
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    Saturdays with Guy (1/20/2018)

    • Posted: 01/21/18
    • Meeting: 01/20/18
    • Time: 00:46:00
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    Topics covered: You are your experience of life; Events don't happen to you, they happen in you; The spiritual life is 100% unknowable; There's no escaping your nature; Feeling abused and let down by others.

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  4. Saturdays with Guy (11/4/2017)
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    Saturdays with Guy (11/4/2017)

    • Posted: 11/07/17
    • Meeting: 11/04/17
    • Time: 00:45:00
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    Topics covered: You can't separate a psychological fear from a mistaken identity; A crisis is a moment when opposing forces meet a point of balance that then tips towards either healing or more sickness; Pain serves a divine purpose; To be lukewarm is to refuse to stay in the struggle; Life endlessly creates conditions under which revelation is delivered to you; Awe is the understanding that y...
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  5. Saturdays with Guy (3/4/2017)
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    Saturdays with Guy (3/4/2017)

    • Posted: 03/06/17
    • Meeting: 03/04/17
    • Time: 00:48:00
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    Topics covered: Sensation, emotion, and intellect try to pass themselves off as love, but are not; We've lost the ability to feel life; You find your way on the inner path through experience; There is no burden that someone else is carrying around that isn't ours, too; Only the heart is in relationship with real life; The last thing I want to see is the burden of being me; Learning to ask, 'Wh...
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  6. Saturdays with Guy (2/25/2017)
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    Saturdays with Guy (2/25/2017)

    • Posted: 02/28/17
    • Meeting: 02/25/17
    • Time: 00:51:00
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    Topics covered: Nature's creatures serve the nature that has created them; Man is created for the purpose of seeing himself; Attending to the whole of the moment both interiorly and exteriorly; Self-observation is the most rudimentary thing for a person to do and should come naturally; How can you be moved to act against yourself and not know it; There is no static state for the human being; I...
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  7. Saturdays with Guy (2/4/2017)
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    Saturdays with Guy (2/4/2017)

    • Posted: 02/07/17
    • Meeting: 02/04/17
    • Time: 00:43:00
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    Topics covered: You don't choose things the way you think you do; The solution to the problem is found in awakening to it; This work is about the gradual discovery of Real I; The experience of the moment must be left alone; Experience is the moment of awareness produced through a condition; Life on earth is all about letting go, but you can't let go of anything that 'you' still want; Transform...
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  8. Saturdays with Guy (12/31/2016)
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    Saturdays with Guy (12/31/2016)

    • Posted: 01/04/17
    • Meeting: 12/31/16
    • Time: 00:30:00
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    Topics covered: 'You're just going to have to drive yourself crazy'; You can't make a quiet mind and an open heart with thought; This work is to help develop all of your parts, not just the intellect; You need to be one with events that happen, which thought can't do; Contemplation is different from thinking about what happened; Thought can only imagine that it's working out problems; We resis...
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  9. Saturdays with Guy (12/10/2016)
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    Saturdays with Guy (12/10/2016)

    • Posted: 12/13/16
    • Meeting: 12/10/16
    • Time: 00:40:00
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    Topics covered: There is no choice possible until there's temptation; A life awakened is a life of seeing the need to interrupt the sleeping self; Until a lesson is learned, the conditions required to create the lesson will accelerate; Laying down your life for your brother; Don't be afraid of what you see about yourself; At the bottom of everything dark is a particular 'I' called 'woe is me';...
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  10. Saturdays with Guy (3/26/2016)
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    Saturdays with Guy (3/26/2016)

    • Posted: 03/29/16
    • Meeting: 03/26/16
    • Time: 00:52:00
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    Topics covered: When I am not present to myself, something else speaks for me; The sense of 'I' is a derivative of imagination; All real education comes from moments of integration; Response is request; Awareness is born where active and passive meet; Personality is the 'second I' which is the effect of the moment; You can't change until 'being' is upstream of 'doing'; Karma is justice, which...
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  11. Saturdays with Guy (11/29/2014)
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    Saturdays with Guy (11/29/2014)

    • Posted: 12/01/14
    • Meeting: 11/29/14
    • Time: 00:41:00
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    Topics covered: The reaction to the pain seems to be different than the pain itself; When you try to figure out what your pain is about, you do it from the mistaken position of thinking you're the light figuring out the darkness; You cannot truly know what love is without at least gradually understanding what the love of God is; Real love has no position at all.
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  12. Saturdays with Guy (5/25/2013)
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    Saturdays with Guy (5/25/2013)

    • Posted: 06/03/13
    • Meeting: 05/25/13
    • Time: 00:40:00
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    Informal discussion between Guy Finley and students at Life of Learning Foundation.
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