Don't let push come to shove. We are an expression of opposing forces. For every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction. Failures and follies come from our misunderstanding of the Divine Law of Second Force. With "want" and "don't want," we act against ourselves without knowing it. This consciousness sets itself against itself in an act of self-sabotage. Insistence leads to resistance, and fear strengthens fear. There is no such thing as a moment in time, until it is collapsed by this consciousness into a thought. Oppose not what opposes you (second force). For every push there is a shove. Be aware when you are being taken over (shoved) by fear, identification, demands, etc. See that whenever you push back, it's not you, but an unconscious nature. Be present to the temptation to sabotage yourself. No side of the opposites can free you. Freedom is seeing the opposites at the same time. Become an instrument of the awareness of the opposites, to bring yourself into a new relationship with the Divine. Serve what saves you from yourself. The only thing you suffer from is what you do not yet understand about yourself and the operation of your own nature.