Here's a great secret: anytime you feel like you "can't" go through something -- do what you want to -- or maybe just handle whatever needs to be done, remember the following: This painful sense of "I can't" -- including the legion of heavy thoughts that seem to anchor you to it -- is NOT you. Who YOU are -- your true Self -- can't be held back or weighed down by any form of unconscious resistance, any more than you can tie chains around a beam of light. But the ONLY way to realize this higher self-knowledge is to act on it... when nothing in you wants to try! There is no Truth that sets you free without your conscious work to see it in action.