Self-Pity
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Special LessonInstead of Burning... Turn to Learning
- Posted: 11/25/19
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Whenever painful events happen, they tend to fall on only one of two sides of a person. The first side is the denial side. When turning this way, refusal rules. Regret, self-pity, and endless explanations generally follow. Or, the unwanted moment falls on the angry side, where the turning is to burning. Resentment rages. Hatred and feelings of betrayal mushroom into....
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Short TalkErase Your Painful Past with This One Action
- Posted: 08/26/18
- Meeting: 08/26/18
- Time: 00:05:44
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Anytime we get a glimpse of the fact that we've made a mess of things in our lives, something in us quickly jumps in to cover it up and pretend that everything is fine. It is only when we no longer avoid seeing the fact of our situation and can finally admit "I don't like what I've made" that an atonement can take place. -
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Remember This Truth and Release Yourself From Negative States (Student Talks)
- Posted: 06/10/18
- Meeting: 06/08/18
- Time: 00:55:00
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There is only one reason why we become emotionally negative, let alone surrender ourselves to its dark and debilitating embrace: We have forgotten that we have a choice as to what we love, and whose company we keep, accordingly.
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A True Friend Never Forsakes You (Student Talks)
- Posted: 08/27/17
- Meeting: 08/18/17
- Time: 00:54:00
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As we awaken to see that misery loves company -- and that we've become its closest friend -- we're well on our way to discovering a new...and much truer Friend.Unlock ContentThis content is only available with Premium Membership
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Why You Must Never Give Yourself a Good Reason for Feeling Bad (Student Talks)
- Posted: 04/19/16
- Meeting: 04/15/16
- Time: 00:56:00
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Any part of one's self that finds good reason to justify its pain is the source of that pain it justifies.Unlock ContentThis content is only available with Premium Membership
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Stop This Useless Form of Self-Induced Suffering (Student Talks)
- Posted: 08/16/13
- Meeting: 08/09/13
- Time: 00:55:00
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The bigger the lie -- the more polished the image -- the smaller and more painful becomes the life of the one who lives this pretense.Unlock ContentThis content is only available with Premium Membership
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Open the Door and Let Forgiveness Find You (Student Talks)
- Posted: 10/16/12
- Meeting: 10/05/12
- Time: 00:52:00
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The missing spiritual key -- needed to forgive those who have hurt us -- is found in our own awakening wish to be forgiven for having been deceived, and then seduced into believing there could ever be a valid reason for hating anyone.Unlock ContentThis content is only available with Premium Membership
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Stop Adding Mass to Your Misery (Student Talks)
- Posted: 09/18/10
- Meeting: 08/13/10
- Time: 00:25:00
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Thinking about whatever it is that you wish wasn't happening serves only to add mass to your misery.Unlock ContentThis content is only available with Premium Membership
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Saturdays with GuyAnswer the Divine "Call" and Realize All That You Are + Q&A - Saturdays with Guy (6/19/2021)
- Posted: 06/21/21
- Meeting: 06/19/21
- Time: 01:18:08
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Any part of you that wants you to feel bad, angry, or sorry for yourself, including whatever thoughts it may call on to justify why you must ache, is a secret partner of the very pain it resists. This unholy nature exists for one reason only: to ensure that you continue contributing to the suffering it creates, and then sustains with your unconscious consent.
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Advanced Inner Life TalkInsights You Need to Stop Judging Yourself
- Posted: 05/18/19
- Meeting: 05/15/19
- Time: 00:57:53
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Classroom Talk: 5/15/2019 The harsh, or otherwise cruel judgment of yourself feels like it's part of what's necessary to perfect yourself when, in truth, it's actually the mechanical action of an unconscious mind punishing itself for not being as it's imagined it ought to be.
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Advanced Inner Life Talk
How to Live in a World Beyond Worry or Fear
- Posted: 03/11/09
- Meeting: 02/15/09
- Time: 00:58:00
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We cannot be made a captive of any psychological condition to which we have not silently granted our consent.Unlock ContentThis content is only available with All Access Membership
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The Secret of Letting Go
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