There is nothing created in the universe that is not endowed with everything it needs to fulfill its purpose in creation. The purpose of a human being is to know and love God.
Why then is my life riddled with pain? Because I am riddled with false purposes. Any purpose that drives me into pain cannot be part of the purpose for which I was created. Greed, anger, depression etc. are signs that something is wrong in the system. If you're in a false purpose, you are always in a rush to it. We rush in our thoughts.
You will never know God's life if you remain a human being who rushes.
You cannot be in a rush without being in pain. I'm in the pain of not being where I want to be. Everything the mind projects to end pain is part of the pain. The pain of being divided does not belong to the self it creates. The pain of the division has nothing to do with the self that claims it. That nature comes up to explain the pain to you. The greater the pain, the more the rush. When you're in a rush, how compassionate are you?
Guy tells story of "With this pain I give thee life and do thee wed."
To be a human being is to have pain. We are born in a caldron filled with disparate parts. We cannot solve pain through the self that that pain creates. The pain is fuel to motivate you to get to the end of it.
There must be a new "I", a new mind. The pain is there for another purpose. We need to say clearly, "I can't go along with this." A new "I' must include a different kind of suffering. "I will see it, be it, let it me what it is without me being in it."
Suddenly you will see the energy in not allowing the opposites to run the gamut. One then stops being what they have been. Stop living from false purposes.