Part 1
The possibility of realizing our highest Good is hidden in every unwanted moment of life where -- if we wish to realize the grace that awaits us there -- we are asked for what amounts to an act of Divine obedience: and that is to yield ourselves to whatever we're given to see as true (about us)... without resisting the nature of what we're being shown, let alone to ask the question "why?"
Part 2
Nothing is good or evil, save thinking make it so... No negative reaction is a problem until the questions we're given to ask about how to resolve it turns it into one!

