To wish against the success of another is to wish against our own happiness, because it's impossible to "want" unhappiness for someone else without first bringing that sorrow into our own heart.

The only true antidote for antagonistic feelings towards others seen as being unlike we are, is to realize this simple -- but largely unwelcome truth: just like ourselves, everyone -- everywhere in the world -- is doing the best they know how to do with the pain that they have been given.

The next time some hostile state takes you over, see that something foreign to your True Nature has imposed itself on you and taken over your life.

Guy Finley's monthly call-in radio show "Guy Finley LIVE!" broadcast on HealthyLife.net. Topics explored in this show: You can't judge someone without feeling pain; Judgment is a defense mechanism even though it seems like an attack mechanism; Any moment spent rushing towards something to create your happiness only serves to confirm your unhappiness; No one can be true to another human being w...

To wish against the success of another is to wish against our own happiness, because it's impossible to "want" unhappiness for someone else without first bringing that sorrow into our own heart.

Identifying with a negative state -- and resenting someone else for how you feel -- is like bumping your elbow on your own bedroom door and blaming your next-door neighbor for the pain you're in!...

Part 1To find the part of you that can love whatever any moment brings to you, is to realize the part of you that never fears or regrets anything that happens.Part 2Until we understand the unseen relationship that exists between self and its wants, we can never know what it really means to be true to our Self.Part 3As long as the highs and lows..

Here's the real reason why talking to yourself about what you resent in someone, or otherwise resist about some event is so exhausting: it's very hard work to make something (so big) out of what really amounts to nothing.

The only thing that can happen to you when you're in the wrong place is a wrong thing. But even when you find yourself in a "wrong place" inwardly, you don't have to remain there.

Disagree with the opinion of what others would have you believe is true, and they will secretly resent you; but quietly refuse to argue about anything with these same people, and they will openly cry out that you have abandoned them.

At least twice a month I receive an email or letter telling me how much anger and hatred the person is feeling towards someone who betrayed them in some way...and asking how on earth can it be possible to live without this recurring resentment and its searing pain. It's hard to put these personal kinds of trials into proper perspective because we are dealing with the operations of two worlds...

Classroom Talk: 1/15/2020 - We cannot run away from what we don’t want to see in ourselves, any more than a mirror can escape whatever is reflected in it. And yet, to SEE the truth of this fact (about our present level of consciousness) is the action of transcending it, along with its pain.