Topics covered: The most important thing in any given moment is that I have to attend to "my" part of that moment, my responsibility; We never see ourselves at fault; There are two sides to every relationship; What can I learn in this moment about myself; Can I resist something that my partner has said or done without having an expectation of some kind; We accuse our partner of pushing our button...

Topics covered: Relationships are the ground of revelation; The real limitation in relationships is a negative reaction born of an unseen expectation; There’s no such thing as a bad fact about ourselves; When pain meets pain, pain is begotten; Love never punishes, separates, or denies; Self-realization is impossible without relationship; Love allows negativity to be revealed as futile...

Part I: Who serves only himself in this life may be first to find a seat at the table, but he eats from a plate filled only with emptiness. Part II: If we must dream, let us long for that life beyond ourselves; for who desires things already known, or otherwise imagined in forms reconfigured from fantasies too well worn? Behold! It is the Unknown Life that calls to us from a Desire untold;...

Topics covered: The Law of Order; We're conditioned to believe we can control the outcome of any moment; Control of life is an absolute illusion; Thinking is a form of complaint; Changing the manifestation of a consciousness that's out of order; What does it mean to say "I exist"; The relationship of "I am" is unity; Freedom is unimaginable; Everything is a reflection; Silence permits seeing;...

Classroom Talk: 7/23/2004 - Closing our eyes to where we may be in the wrong in that moment of any strained relationship does not make what is wrong within us any less of a burden to bear, but it does ensure that wherever we go we will find ourselves "bumping" into others and, for our pride-induced blindness, continuing to blame them for what we have refused to see.

Topics covered: Discussion of Guy's new book on Relationship Magic; All the most valuable lessons we have in life come out of our relationships; The observer of the moment is not apart from what is observed; We love to be stirred by love, but reject anything that stirs us negatively; We bring unseen expectations and demands into our relationships; What do you mean by ""magic""; How do we set our...

To begin seeing that negative states such as anger, impatience, worry, and fear have lodged themselves into the hidden corners of your heart is to discover how they have managed to win their spot.

Topics covered: Guy's workshop on 'Relationship Magic'; Relationships are the real driving element, the real key to compassionate, loving interactions; It is through relationships that we are introduced to ourselves; To change you must be whole, to be whole you must allow the revelation to reveal the whole of you; The only thing that you run into in life that creates a problem for you is what...

Part I: True consideration, charity, and compassion are secret acts of Love born in the fires of consciously sacrificing selfishness. Part II: As it is impossible to want to make an impression on someone and to receive one at the same time, doesn't this fact help to explain why there is so little compassion between human beings these days. Part III: It is better for us to know that w...

Topics covered: Relationship is the crux of life; We are meant to be self-developing human beings; Relationship is revelation; Three stages of love; For love to grow, we have to grow; What we call compromise in our relationships is kicking the can down the street; Love never blames or separates; In your patience, possess ye your soul; Perfect love casts out fear...

Classroom Talk: 12/17/2004 - Spiritual wisdom is our greatest wealth and, as we realize the truth of this -- so that true self-knowledge becomes our single greatest wish in life -- each moment of every one of our relationships serves as the secret path to the summit of ourselves.

Topics covered: Relationships are the single greatest, unrecognized spiritual resource in the Universe; Waking up together means that you and I every other human being on this planet are in it together; The endless journey of love; Explanation of the story, Jerry McGuire; No one dumps on another human without the one doing the dumping being in pain; Shattering the pattern...