You can't be thinking about yourself and giving yourself to life at the same time.
Student Talks: 01/23/2026 - Most of us live an accidental life...where our actual condition is constantly covered up by the convenience of being able to regret whatever we look back on as the source of our pain. But let’s be clear. Our list of painful regrets is not due to a cruel world, bad timing, or unfortunate events that got the better of us; no, the fault lies elsewhere, much closer to home: not only are we blind to the legion of unconscious parts at large in the dark of us, but we are yet to see the other half of this same truth: these same parts never stop working to ensure that we never stop wrestling with the regrets they keep resurrecting within us. To what end, this painful plot? That we never become conscious of the relationship between a life we regret, and our identification with a lower level of consciousness that ensures its continuation.
The meditative life is the natural outcome of having realized the limitations of thinking about yourself.
The meditative life is the natural outcome of having seen the inherent limitation in thinking about yourself.
Thinking about whatever it is that you wish wasn't happening serves only to add mass to your misery.
In this podcast, Guy Finley talks about how a still and attentive mind perfectly reflects the "presence" moment.
In any relationship, the one who is hurt most by the absence of compassion is the one in whom compassion is absent.