The anticipation of something desirable is always sweet in conception, which would be great if it weren't for a certain fact about the nature of longing itself: it appears within us, at first, by itself, bringing with it the promise of just what we need to make everything right. But appearances are not always what they seem; for standing directly behind it, as it were...
In your book on Breaking Codependency, you refer to "desire" as us wishing for something. For me, desire is a natural impulse to create in the universe. Without it we would never be compelled to move. Don't you think that the word "want" more accurately expresses the lack we feel when we don't have something and the sense that having it will complete us?...
How can someone be given so much and -- rather than being grateful for the abundance of these gifts -- be so negative over a single element in the midst of them? Closer examination of such a situation, and the inconsolable level of self that gives rise to it, may show us that we have more in common with this discontented character than not. It's impossible for us to...
As difficult and shocking as it may be to consider, within us dwells a certain level of unconscious desire that loves... to not want. It has but one purpose: This part of us "lives" to resist anything that doesn't live up to its expectations. Why would anything want to live like that? Because what this dark nature likes most of all is being negative!
Classroom Talk: 12/20/2002 - Who serves only himself in this life may be first to find a seat at the table, but he eats from a plate filled only with emptiness.
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Classroom Talk: 8/16/2020 - Part 1: The divided mind -- driven as it is by unconscious desires -- is very similar to a dog that has learned to throw its own stick. It cannot come to a rest until it has exhausted itself, and even then it can't let go of what it feels compelled to chase.
Classroom Talk: 8/23/2002 - What God has given each of us to be, cannot be enlarged, but only realized... And so our struggle and strain to be something more than this, to be grand in the eyes of the world, not only blinds us to the futility of these efforts, but puts us in conflict with everyone and everything that is seen as trying to deny us our demands.
Classroom Talk: 6/4/2003 - Whether his fear is for the loss of some imagined estate, or for his longing to gain the respect of others, here is why no one can hope to ever possess that which he fears losing: As long as one's heart and mind is ruled over by any desire, such a person does not rule himself... And how can someone who doesn't even possess himself ever hope to own anything else?
Classroom Talk: 3/26/2003 - Asking a desire to deliver you from the pain you feel for its presence in you is like asking the night to lead you to a place without darkness.
Discover how to use the higher principles of Love to elevate yourself, your family, and our planet as well! The path is revealed in a remarkable talk given by Guy Finley in Santa Fe at the Ninth Annual Conference on Science and Consciousness. Every unforgettable minute awaits you in The Evolution of Desire: Mastering the Inner Fire. Discover the same revelations as the scientists, profes...
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Classroom Talk: 3/13/2022 - Part 1: By wanting are all things not wanted... thus created; much as joy and sorrow, bound as one... are related. Part 2: If you build it, they will come; if you leave it empty... it will be filled.
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Classroom Talk: 6/3/2020 - Only those who agree to surrender themselves into the ceaseless revelation of Divine Love can realize the invisible labor of that all-encompassing Heart. But, to be clear: this indescribable order of love -- including its indisputable authority to "cast out all fear" -- can never be possessed; we can only strive to be as present...