Why do unwanted moments keep returning? It's because we answer the moment with a limited part of our consciousness. We think we're the ones answering the moment, but it isn't us. It is a nature that mechanically resists or runs away from any disturbance. It provides an "Instantaneous Automatic Default Answer that Deflects Unwanted Moments" (I-ADA-TADUM). These "answers" tell me the meaning of the moment and what's going to happen, which prevents me from truly seeing the Moment. Catch the "I-ADA-TADUM" that deflect unwanted moments, i.e. Getting defensive, blaming, avoiding, justifying resentment, etc.. In catching the "stock answers" given you, you will be put in a new relationship with awareness. Recognize when something is acting and speaking for me, but it isn't me. This is the birth of conscience.