Are you beginning to lose hope that you'll ever see any real change in your life? That you'll ever know a lasting difference?

How many times have you made resolutions, plans, affirmations - thinking this time you've got it; now you have the right combination to blast you out of the rut?

It's something we all say. "This time it's going to be different..."

We'll be nicer to people. We'll exercise. We'll eat right and slim down. We won't be so lazy. We'll stop being such a wimp, and start speaking up for ourselves. We'll get down to business...and follow our passion!

So we read books, take courses, draw up to-do lists, join a gym (or a support group for exercise-phobic people!)... and maybe this works for a day, a week, even a month or two. But then, comes a challenge that's just too big for our resolve to weather.

Or we slowly begin to forget our former resolve. You know the drill...

Three months later we're back eating the same foods, wasting time, caving in, doing everything just like we did before.

What Do We Do When Even Our Best Intentions Aren't Enough?

It's even more frustrating when we've made a sincere effort and actually achieved what we set out to do. Maybe we get the degree, or the new career, or latch onto a new person in our life, thinking that this is surely the ticket to the confidence we've been missing. But even then, before we know it the same insecurities start creeping up on us. We start having the same problems, only with other people; it's as if nothing had ever changed.

But let's be clear: it isn't that there's anything wrong with getting an education, having a good job, earning money, falling in love, and making a contribution to society. These things are a natural part of our human experience; each has its own worth. But all such values are on one level of life, while the authentic change we're hoping to make in ourselves - that will finally bring us the contentment we long for - awaits us at a completely different level of life. And that's the point:

Unless a transformation occurs within us - at a deeper level - the outer achievements we may attain matter very little in the bigger scheme of things. We've all seen that truth: nothing essential can change in the way we feel about ourselves, or our life until we're able to make some essential, real change in ourselves.
So, what's going on here? We're sincere, intelligent people. Why can't we make a plan and follow through? Why don't our successes last? And the most important questions of all...

What does it take so that we really change? Where and how does it happen? Why is it that everything we try leads us back to the same place - and what should we be doing instead?

Stop Making These Two Critical Mistakes

There are important reasons why we don't change even in the face of our best efforts, and they are tied to two mistakes we make that sabotage us from the very beginning:

First, we think we know what real change is. But the evidence says otherwise. Sure, we may understand how to change our surface-level experiences, but we've yet to crack the code for making those deeper, permanent changes we all long for. That's why we always circle back around to the same discontent. The latest success always loses its luster. The new relationship too soon turns old, returning us to where we began our search: feeling incomplete.

Second, we think we have to change ourselves. We think there must be something we can do to remake ourselves. But there really isn't. After all, the limitations and frustrations that plague us are the result of the whole of what we are. Let's face it: we can't fix our own flaws anymore than a misfiring automobile engine can give itself a tune-up!

Clearly, to overcome both of these errors we need new information. We need to see ourselves in a new way. We need to develop new skills. We need to align ourselves with a greater understanding.

So, the first step to making real change is to stop believing in our own misguided efforts, and instead...

Learn how to attract the help of higher powers that will do it for us.

Fortunately, there's real help you can turn to because bestselling author Guy Finley covered this crucial topic in-depth when he presented Get Unstuck: Your Step-by-Step Guide to Making Real Change - a 60-minute audio program plus bonus 40-minute Q&A session. The explanations and practices it offers will help you overcome any negative, self-limiting state so that you can move past it and know real change.

Here Is Your Step-by-Step Guide to Making Real Changes in Your Life

For more than 30 years Guy Finley has been guiding seekers along the path to a new life. In Get Unstuck: Your Step-by-Step Guide to Making Real Change he presents his clearest explanation yet of exactly what holds us back and the specific steps we can take to break through to a whole new level of life.

If you're tired of making the same mistakes again and again...

Of having the same problems with people that leave you feeling anxious, guilty, filled with regret...

Of having nothing to look forward to but a repeat of everything that's never worked for you in the past...

Then here is the Way Out!

In Get Unstuck: Your Step-by-Step Guide to Making Real Change you will learn the secrets of:

• Finally undergoing a transformation that really lasts - not just for a week or two, but permanently
• Why you don't have to change yourself, and what is the key to activating what will do it for you
• The essence of a truly loving relationship, and what change within you will allow you to experience it for yourself
• Why real self-change is not about improving yourself, but about something much deeper
• How never to find yourself in a wrong situation again
• How to stop repeating experiences you don't want
• How to spot the subtle forms of self-sabotage that always resemble lifelines.
• A special way to use any disheartening fact about yourself to shatter its hold over you.
• The one essential fact that leads to a fearless life
• How to use the revelation that is waiting just for you in any moment so that the you who exits the moment is not the same as the one who entered it

And last, but definitely not least...

• 4 specific practical steps you can take to realize Divine love and know the authentic change that only it can bring