Next time we wonder how it's possible that someone doesn't like us, let us take a deep breath, and take a look at how we feel about them in that same moment. If we're honest, we'll see and understand two things at once: first, and perhaps most important: there are, in fact, parts of our nature that are not very likable. And second, one of the reasons certain people set us off, and that we then judge, accordingly, for their poor taste... is to help us realize an unconscious nature in us that doesn't like anyone who doesn't like us!