Part 1
Expecting nothing, real love forgives everything... Much in the same way as the sun shines all of its light into a darkness that comprehends it not. Be like the sun: shine on without expecting to be seen; this leads to the Divine realization that it's enough to just be light
Part 2
One sure sign the willing aspirant successfully walks the true upper path -- and approaches the first gate that stands between the Kingdom of Heaven and the realm of earth -- is that, increasingly, he wants the experience of Life... more than he wants more individual life experiences.