Key Lesson
The next time you're about to jump all over someone you love for having made a misstep, try to recall where you've fallen down in the same way. Consciously choosing to recollect your similarity (with that person's character) not only disarms the parts of you about to pounce on it, but this level of self-remembering also dispels *the illusion of difference* between the two of you, replacing it with a compassionate consideration born of wisdom and love.
