8 Words that Take the Hate and Ache Out of Human Relationships

We are meant to grow into something, not out of something. This has nothing to do with what the world says growth is all about; It means that we are meant to grow within ourselves throughout all of our relationships, and if we are not growing, we are dying. For a human being to grow, we must die to ourselves from moment to moment, and our lives are designed for this to happen; our lives are actually "set-up" to allow for this growth to occur. These moments are mirrors, but we have become indifferent to seeing ourselves through our relationships. What we want is to see is our own projected image of ourselves.

What can cause us to change? I need to see that everything relates to "me" wherever I am, but we have related with others for what we want or what they can take from us. The nature we live from can only know itself through separating itself from others, and this separation creates a secret dependency, fear, and hatred. We must see the separateness that we have around other human beings. All of us have the capacity to outgrow what limits and separates us from life.

8 words to take the hatred out of any situation: S/He is feeling the same thing I am... or... S/He has felt the same thing I have.