I would imagine the root desire to merge with the Divine is the same for male and female alike... as Einstein says, "The central urge of every atom is to return to its source"... but that there is most likely a certain degree of essential "conditioning" inherent in the physical male and female form (due to the archetype forces that fashion it). Fortunately, this "conditioned" longing exists only at the level of the opposites, or, said slightly different, for as long as one lives and "longs" from the incomplete nature that any unreconciled opposite represents. Clearly, we (male and female, alike) hold all characters and their qualities possible, as implied by the idea we are all "made" in the image of "God" as Telos. Telos is without beginning or end: three timeless forces (active, passive, and neutral, or modifying) in all their play and integrative possibilities, which means who we really are (you and me, male and female, etc.) isn't a gender as much as we are a genesis -- a beginning without end, made possible by Love.

As far as a special seminar for men on how to connect with their depth of feelings... in many ways, that's what my talks are always about. Imagine an instrument, created by a master who endowed it with the potential to regulate what it resonates... and then "decides" one day to only play a certain set of notes, or to remain in one mode and two octaves only. That's about our present situation. Fortunately for us, the pain of living in such a place in our consciousness creates a constant "disharmony" that must either be addressed, or that we (one's soul) literally dies from its denial.

It seems to me that real love never thinks of itself as male or female, any more than a flower would avoid sunlight, regardless how it shines.