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  1. Learn to Expose Unconscious Wrongness
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    Learn to Expose Unconscious Wrongness

    • Posted: 03/17/14
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    A crisis arises when some lie we have deceived ourselves with is revealed to be just that: a lie. But never are the healing powers of the truth so close as when a crisis is at hand. The reason a crisis must precede each new level of authentic self-unity is that the crisis, whatever it may be, points out where we have been holding on to a particular belief, a shaky pretense, or some flattering...

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  2. Step Back from Self-Compromising Thoughts
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    Step Back from Self-Compromising Thoughts

    • Posted: 07/28/13
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    Before we can choose not to compromise ourselves, we must first become acutely aware of those thoughts of ours that may be holding some secret seed of self-defeat.

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  3. A New Approach to Old Problems
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    A New Approach to Old Problems

    • Posted: 04/08/13
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    The following key lessons are taken from 365 Days to Let Go. Use their insights to help yourself discover the unique opportunities in unwanted conditions... *** Life is always new, which means there is no such thing as an "old" problem. What does, in fact, grow "older" in us -- and secretly seasons our suffering -- is how we more readily and rapidly accept our own conclusions that our prob...

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  4. Break Out of Any Rut
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    Break Out of Any Rut

    • Posted: 06/20/11
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    The first step to breaking out of any rut in life is to no longer enable the parts of us that keep walking in them while wishing they weren't so deep.

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  5. Real Life: Lesson #1
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    Real Life: Lesson #1

    • Posted: 12/27/10
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    Once we awaken to see that each of our lives is an integral part of an eternal turning point, and that nothing changes in this great Life without changing everything within it, then we can let go of trying to change ourselves and simply take our natural place, participating in the power of the Life Awakened. This principle is critical to us if we want to understand how we find a life greater...

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  6. The Secret Prayer That Renews You
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    The Secret Prayer That Renews You

    • Posted: 12/06/10
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    In those times when we're busy dreaming up the next plan, the next love, the next thrill, aren't we really looking for a way to renew ourselves? Most of us experience "renewal" when some idea or a hope that we have gets fulfilled, filling us in turn with a sense of excitement; and then, in that feeling of being full of ourselves, comes a certain kind of pleasure that we take as being the same...

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  7. Discover a New Way of Knowing Yourself
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    Discover a New Way of Knowing Yourself

    • Posted: 10/22/10
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    Have you ever wondered why our best intentions and the ability to accomplish them seem to live in two different universes? We intend not to do something mean-spirited or otherwise self-defeating. Yet that is often just what we do. Then we ask, "What happened... how could we?" Yet, for all of our questioning, this mystery remains unsolved. See if the following insight doesn't shed much-needed...

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  8. The Courage to Stop Suffering Over Mistakes
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    The Courage to Stop Suffering Over Mistakes

    • Posted: 09/03/10
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    Real self-command dawns within us as we realize that reliving the past is powerless to change a present misunderstanding.

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  9. Stay Out of Places that Steal Your Happiness
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    Stay Out of Places that Steal Your Happiness

    • Posted: 08/13/10
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    We have the capacity to stop making ourselves powerless by waking up to having put ourselves where our powers are stolen from us.

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  10. How to Discover Your Higher Possibilities
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    How to Discover Your Higher Possibilities

    • Posted: 07/09/10
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    In our willingness to journey to what seems the end of us, we are gifted with the understanding that there is no ending to our True Self.

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  11. Step Out of the Chains Called Self-Control
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    Step Out of the Chains Called Self-Control

    • Posted: 05/28/10
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    Trying to dominate our destructive thoughts and feelings, or seeking to liberate our "better" parts through some form of self-discipline, is secretly at the expense of our freedom, and not in its cause. Freedom from the ties that bind, victory over our own nature, is not a conquest in the usual sense. Try to see the following as deeply as possible: *anything that has to be kept in check must a...

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  12. Break the Spell of Self-Limiting Negative States
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    Break the Spell of Self-Limiting Negative States

    • Posted: 04/05/10
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    The next time (and every time) you catch some negative thought or feeling that says, "I am anxious," "I am scared," "I am mad," or "I am in so much pain" -- the first thing to do is to come wide awake to yourself. By taking the following inner action, you can deliberately snap yourself out of that dark dream that is trying to weave itself into your identity. Rather than allowing yourself to...

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