Someone I loved dearly was murdered recently. I am able to see what seems like thousands of thoughts and have noticed when just one thought takes me away into the darkness. To come back to just noticing and watching these thoughts enables me to accept my feelings without allowing them to drown me. But what I would like to know is, does my soul feel a forever kind of loss of him? Or is the grie...

How to heal from grief after losing a loved one, and use our suffering for its intended purpose, is answered in this insightful video. When an aspirant asks Guy Finley how to heal from grief after losing his wife, Guy explains the difference between the natural pain of loss versus unconsciously revisiting the past which only ensures our continued suffering.

My 20-year old daughter died six weeks ago. I understand that grief is a process. I don't want it to take the best of me, but I know it's important to let it run its course. Any words of advice are appreciated.

Cammy (chat host): Hello everyone! It is so great to see you here tonight. We are excited to have with us as our guest speaker an amazing author and teacher, Guy Finley. Thank you, Guy, for being here with us this evening. GF: I'm delighted to share the evening with you and all of the friends online. Cammy: About a year ago, my friend Wendy shared an incredible book with me, "The Secret of L...

In this answer to a viewer's question, "letting go" author Guy Finley talks about how grief over the death of a loved one will complete itself and become something else if we will not resist the experience and allow it to be what it is.

A student recently asked about "how to process the death of a client." It is the mind that wants to "process" whatever it does in order to restore its sense of equilibrium: a false system of checks and balances produced by images, beliefs, and their attending fears that shake with every shock. If there's grief, let there be grief; if there's regret or some kind of doubt, let that be as it is...

The Spiritual Secret of the Ages: We are forever looking for a "mirror" ­ a person, place, a thing to possess, even ideas or emotions ­ in which we can see and come to know ourselves, but we find only eventual grief and frustration in such searchings as these because it is impossible for us to find the self-wholeness that our heart longs for in any reflection.

Topic: End All the Wars Within You With This One Action (Remastered Classic Talk) (Classroom Talk 8/20/25)

Classroom Talk: 5/15/2024 - Under law, each moment is inevitable; but, what comes out of it...is not.

Topics covered:  Anytime that we momentarily enter into a new dimension of our own understanding, it opens the door for everyone else; When you see something new, you are new. You are introduced to a new relationship within yourself; Seeing something new is the sudden removal of a wall of thought that obscures what has always been there.

Student Talks: 10/24/2025 - Calling on anxious thoughts to check the rising tide of some fearful feeling is like trying to stop a landslide by throwing rocks at it! 

Part I: If you knew someone who gazed absentmindedly at the sun until he couldn't see, and who then cried out, "It's an evil sun that has made me blind," you would know that his unhappiness was his own doing. With this in mind, why is it each time we unconsciously look back into some personal moment of pain or sorrow that we cry out, "It isn't fair! Just look at the grief that this hateful...