Why is it so hard to let go of resentment of things past? So often I find myself consumed with resentment and self-righteousness about something or someone, yet at the same time feel miserable because I really don't want to keep thinking these thoughts. What is the way out?...
If you're tired of being a slave to a painful relationship out of your past, this study in how to release resentments is sure to bring welcome relief. Unconscious conflicts, in dialogue form, play themselves out in our mind by painfully reenacting various scenes from our past; moments gone by in which we either know, or sense, we were compromised by our own weakness. If these inner dialogue...
Resentment is an unseen gravity, a deceptive force embraced by fools. For though it grants us what seems a safe course and temporary anchorage for our anger, by its guidance we always run aground and are left stranded in a dark harbor through whose cold waters swim the enemies of our soul.
Why do I feel the need to impress certain people I meet? I often find myself consumed with resentment toward other people, and it ruins my day. Is there a way to stop feeling this way?...
Unconscious conflicts, in dialogue form, play themselves out in our mind by painfully reenacting various scenes from our past; moments gone by in which we either know, or sense, we were compromised by our own weakness. If these inner dialogues were left to themselves as they popped into our mind, they'd be as powerless to disturb us as an echo is to change its own sound. Where we get into tr...
Question: Why is life so unfair? I am only 21 and yet I have had every hope of academic opportunity dashed. Things seem to go so well for others... such as having parents who love and support them, while I have had to let go of all of my dreams! Answer: Life is not "equal opportunity"... it never has been, and never will be. That is the nature of this world, and resenting the reality of it does...
Student Talks: 4/12/2019 - Key Lesson: The real reason why our heroes in life often turn out to be "zeros"... is because our "number" was up in the same moment that we went looking for strength anywhere outside of our True Self.
What possible Good is there in seeking Love or Peace in a time or place to come when everything along the way that thwarts your dream causes some kind of resentment or is seen as yet another disturbance to avoid!...
Resentment is the coin with which we are paid whenever the things we say we do for others are secretly done for the sake of ourselves.
Part I: Any pain of disappointment or dark resentment that we feel towards another whom we see as having let us down is not born of his or her shortcomings, but because of our own shortsightedness. Part II: The part of us that rejects others for their weakness is made of the same stuff it judges as being so objectionable.
The real reason negative states persist is because we resist seeing the following truth: blaming others for the pain we feel is like resenting our pants for being too tight.