I am about half way through The Secret of Letting Go and have been enjoying it up until this point. But as of about a day or two ago something has changed. The insights and "aha" moments I was having at the beginning have all but disappeared. Now when I read, it's all at mind level and nothing deeper. Do I keep reading even though my false self keeps getting stronger by taking all these ideas and...

I have had an incurable disease for 10 years, and have gone through many treatments for chronic physical pain. As a result, I'm wiped out financially and can't work. I am not seeking sympathy, rather would like to deepen my surrender... which is all I live for anymore. When the pain gets overwhelming, I can't observe it anymore, and this opens the door for fear.

I received news today that my mother has dangerously high blood pressure and I am very concerned. I know that my continual outbursts of negativity, rage, and suicidal threats are contributing. My mother is one of the most loving, amazing, beautiful people you could ever meet, and she has been there for me the entire time. She does not deserve this...

My question is about despair. After a long illness, I realize that to be happy, there has to be a willingness to not think about self or self-imagined problems. You have pointed to the need to call on the light or step into the light when assaulted by dark forces, yet I do not seem able to do so consistently because I am exhausted by physical illness.

I watched my father struggle endlessly with depression and anxiety as I was growing up; I was certain that I would be resigned to the same fate as the trips to psychiatrists' offices and medication seemed to increase for me over the years. I was told I was bipolar, depressed, and anxious, and yet I remained sober, mindful and proactive in seemingly all the right ways... still it got me nowhere...

I am in the process of starting the practice on the principles outlined in your book, The Secret of Letting Go. I feel it is a process that will take its own time for getting the expected results. Meanwhile, how do I successfully deal with actual difficult circumstances in my life? I was swindled and cheated on several years ago in a promised marriage relationship, and have since been involved...

I am having trouble distinguishing between giving attention to the practical actions needed to be taken in daily life and the attention you talk about (head vs. heart). I have fear every day while looking for work and the income to sustain my family. How do I use this experience to learn to live without fear, yet deal with the practicality of human life (rent, food, gas, etc.)?...

I have been a seeker for as long as I can remember, and have appreciated your materials and videos. I believe in God, in a traditional Christian way. I am an everyday guy... I've been in the military, I've been a chef, and I've been a police officer. I provide you this background as perhaps some insight for my question. We have to choose in our mind if we see a loving and peaceful world or a c...

In the world of spirit, we experience love. But we are on earth in order to develop our intent -- in order to choose who we are, in order to self-realize. So, in the big picture, is intent only a tool? Or is it an organizing force that allows love and hate to exist? Is intent bigger than love?...

My life is beautiful in peaceful surroundings and with loving friends. But where is my lover? Where is my dream? Not anywhere in sight... and that's been the case forever. I lost my husband in divorce, and then the journey through emotional hell based on denial began... all due to an inordinate sense of worthlessness -- unconsciously believing I was unwanted and not worth being wanted. I am an...

The uncertainties of events in my life are increasing day by day. What I hope for in the future never comes as expected. The tension of negative anticipation has created irritation in me and I sometimes shout at others. How can I develop the ability to have patience - to enjoy my present and hope for good in the future?...

As much as I have listened to your talks on breaking through the fear barrier, my fears still come to haunt me. How can I actually stop being afraid once and for all?...