Guy Finley reveals that the "self" that grieves over an unwanted event is the same level of self that dragged you into the situation in the first place. We have the capacity to use the shock of that realization to wake up and let go of the pain.
ED: Hello. I'm Dr. Ellen Dickstein, and I'm here with best-selling inner life author, Guy Finley. Today we're going to talk about making a fresh start in life. Guy, most of us have made drastic changes trying to make a fresh start in life, and yet no matter what we do, we always end up feeling the same way. The outer conditions may be different, but inside we're still the same. So we know tha...
Identifying with a negative state -- and resenting someone else for how you feel -- is like bumping your elbow on your own bedroom door and blaming your next-door neighbor for the pain you're in!...
What we put first in our lives is what we receive from life. The treasure of our heart both measures and determines our wealth, or our inner poverty. But not everything we love in life loves us back. Not everything we serve serves us as we imagine. Only the Divine, the light of Truth, never fails us... never. There's only one reason why we ever find ourselves confused, depressed, angry with s...
GF: Welcome everyone. Before we begin tonight let me present a few thoughts about what is required of us to walk away from useless suffering. No one can hope to know such freedom without first understanding certain truths as to what keeps us captives of unconscious negative forces. We will discuss some of these insights now, and more at chat's close. Nothing is harder for us to accept about o...
One of the most difficult lessons we must face in our effort to win the war within ourselves has to do with the truth about our relationship with our own negative states: they fascinate us. That's right! But, why do we value them so? The answer will surprise you. We value negative states because of the strong sense of self we get from them. This may be very difficult for us to see, but a stro...
My struggle lately (and for some time now) has been to "see" the belief beneath my actions, attitude, mood, disposition, whatever you call it. When I am off-track, negative, depressed, or lost, what resources do you recommend I use to shine a light on the (erroneous) "belief" that is most likely operating beneath my conscious awareness in that moment? I would be most grateful for your response...
Ask anyone who has been through it: the road to recovery is a hard one. Not for the faint of heart! And so it's true when it comes to the real Work of realizing and recovering the most precious gift of all: the inner Light that grants us the right to live without dark mental and emotional states.
You are meant to be the master of your own life. And when you are: * You always feel safe and whole * You can be kind in any circumstance * You always have generosity in your heart * You always feel loved There is only one way to gain this kind of self-mastery, and that is by letting Love work through you...
When life falls apart, or threatens to come unglued, it seems almost natural to carry around some desperate, stressed, or depressed emotional state. But why cling to something that makes us ache? The answer is surprising, but evident, once we're aware of what's actually taking place within us.