Part 1
The inevitable outcome of all unconscious self-compromise -- within ourselves, but primarily in relationships with others -- is to reach a kind of critical mass of resentment that then spills itself out on others in words and deeds too soon enacted, and too late regretted.
Part 2
The more any part of us doesn't want to see, let alone rejects the experience of some negative "I" that appears in an unwanted moment, the more that "I" pushes back on the experience it doesn't want. What this false sense of "I" can't see -- but that we must, if we ever hope to be free -- is that the more this "I" denies the painful experience (of itself), the more it affirms the suffering it's struggling to avoid.